How to stop parroting?

[Evol]

Same as topic? How can I stop parroting? I just would like to talk to Daisy without Parroting.

[Guest amber5885]

Just stop. It take a concious effort to clear your mind ad calm your thoughts. There really isn't a magic fix just try taking a few breaths and clearing your mind when you talk to her.

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Also please use the search function as there is a lot of information on the forums about parroting, the pros and cons and how to fix it if it is a problem for you.

[jackson]

Parroting is loads of fun.

[Guest amber5885]

Jackson stop. That's not useful advice at all, he wants to know how to stop and parroting constantly isn't good for a tulpa.

[raymond13557]

i mostly keep quiet red follows suit but i decided to let red talk when she/he wants to i told her/him "just talk when you want to" and she smiled and nodded happily.

[Quilten]

Here's my advice: if you want to talk to your tulpa without parroting/puppeting/whatever, given that your tulpa has the ability to talk, or at least communicate, just let them. I find that asking questions to your tulpa might help, especially if you ask them about themselves. You'll get to know each other better and improve vocality in the process. If you are pretty sure you are still parroting, ask your tulpa if you are. If they say yes, then just work on parallel processing/vocality some more until you get results. I wouldn't stop there, though. Practicing as often as possible lends to ultimately the better results, and more quickly at that. Hope I was able to help.

[reguile]

Look at the problem from a different angle.

 

The key is not saying "how do I stop parroting".

 

The key is saying "I am not parroting."

 

The problem with parroting is that it is almost entirely arbitrary. There is a total of ZERO ways for even you to really define or make a statement of "I thought this" or "my tulpa thought this". It is incredibly easy to "mis-assign" thoughts, and incredibly easy to not mis-assign thoughts. Identiy within the mind isn't something that goes away easily, and all people have been and will be used to the idea that all of their thoughts are... theirs.

 

The point of stopping parroting is less about actually ending parroting, and more about learning to stop thinking that all your thoughts are yours. "How do I stop naming all the folders in my computer by the same name?" may be a good example, or the best I can think of ATM.