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8 minutes ago, Mirichu said:

How did dormancy work in your system again?

It doesn't!

Well, it did once, before EweEff started doing second position practice. Since then, we can't really go dormant. Not that it would be desirable to do so

I'm Uncannyfellow's tulpa. I share his head with my sister Cornelia

 

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My hopes and dreams just died a little bit

2 hours ago, SheShe said:

Inconsistent with his gender preferences and will.

 

^That is very concerning.

 

Daria is hereby banned from fronting alone. That is if we ever figure out what that entails. I’m not feeling comfortable with any of this.

 

Did anyone ever say, “that’ll never happen to me” then it happened with respect to these topics?

Superfluous heart activate! 💖 -shwing-

1 hour ago, Mirichu said:

What exactly?

 

I think she meant switching?

 

If she did, then yes, for me at least. Switching kind of happened without trying to switch, but then we tried to try and it still took us a month to figure that indeed that's what was happening. In fact, then it would happen when we didn't want it to and I remember putting up a sign in mindspace to prevent Ashley from switching in.

Oh if it's switching, um, I was made just for this but we had this 'i hope we're not like those front stuck systems, god wouldn't that be unfortunate'

Such misfortune!

1 hour ago, Samantha said:

Daria is hereby banned from fronting alone. That is if we ever figure out what that entails. I’m not feeling comfortable with any of this.

it's usually considered extremely bad system etiquette to do things your host is (or often, even your tulpas are) uncomfortable with without consulting them, though some systems seem to do it just as a sort of "fun" imo (but also because their separate-ness just works like that). You REALLY shouldn't have to worry about your tulpa doing things you didn't want them to while switched, especially if you've talked about things a lot and you both have an understanding of what you're okay with

 

like, our system tends to front for weeks or even months at a time and we all handle things in basically the same ways, because Lumi is still our host and we consider it his life that we are just sharing. There ARE systems that consider it a shared life between them and other such things (like different systemmates having their own separate parts of the life, I know at least one tulpa who had their own job!), but basically you should be able to work out (or dictate to) your tulpa what exactly you're okay with

 

also I feel like a lot of fear of switching is only relevant to people without developed tulpas yet, like, they're "afraid of what their tulpa might decide to do"... which just isn't really a thing with developed tulpas, 'cus like you literally KNOW them and what they will decide to do lol. Stuff like what Bear mentioned (which is rare anyways) only happens because Bear allows that system dynamic in the first place

Hi, I'm one of Lumi's tulpas! I like rain and dancing and dancing in the rain and if there's frogs there too that's bonus points.

I think being happy and having fun makes life worth living, so spreading happiness is my number one goal!

Talk to us? https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas

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1 hour ago, Mirichu said:

Oh if it's switching, um, I was made just for this but we had this 'i hope we're not like those front stuck systems, god wouldn't that be unfortunate'

 

Oh dear dear Mirichu, maybe we could loan you Joy and she'll just take over the body.

 

 


@Samantha

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Also, if you think you're in the running for meme queen, think again. We are the meme system.

 

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