About the possible transformation of tulpa

[262vs]

Will tulpa occur changes that the host totally does not want?

E.g. gender , personality , preference ,  position , conception

 

[CM]

Yes, a tulpa can change in ways that the host doesn't want or anticipate. It's called deviation.

[Ranger]

Is your tulpa bothering you a lot with their choices? You seem pretty unhappy about the changes, I wonder why.

[262vs]

My words are not accurate enough , the question should be "Will tulpa occur changes that the host totally unacceptable?"

Edited April 30, 2021 by Ranger
Removed unecessary formatting

[Ranger]

What was unnecceptable about their change?

 

I'm asking this because there may be a way to work this out, but I need more information.

Edited December 26, 2020 by Ranger

[262vs]

My tulpa doesn't have any unacceptable changes , I ask in advance the possible problems in the future.

[Ranger]

May I have an example of an unnecceptable change? I'm not sure what you feel you need to prepare for.

[262vs]

gender

[capricornus]

Why do you feel like that's an unacceptable change?

[Ranger]

It's quite common for tulpas to want to change their gender or experiment with a different gender. However, gender also seems to be one of those things that once decided doesn't usually change.

 

Gender isn't usually an issue in wonderland because no one else in real life living with you can shame you or your tulpa.

 

If you have any deeper unresolved insecurities about gender, a tulpa changing their gender could point to that. Sometimes a tulpa changing their gender is a sign the host wants to change their gender, but usually the host creates their tulpa as the desired gender in the first place. However, I have also seen the opposite where hosts change all of the tulpa's genders to match theirs, even when the tulpas had the opposite gender before. I personally believe that's not very fair to the tulpas unless the tulpas are okay with those changes.

 

If you have any questions about gender, you're in luck because the tulpa community has a lot of transgendered people in it. I also recommend reaching out to a therapist if you are struggling with these sort of questions.

Edited December 26, 2020 by Ranger