Nofap / Seminal Retention and Tulpa progress, would it help ? Your testimony Please !

[esoteric-congruence]

Hello Y'all,

 

So yes, i'm very interested about seminal retention and nofap, i think those topics may even go to metaphysic so much i consider that's powerful although i couldn't go further than a fortnight.

 

In short, i consider sexual energy as a creative energy, so i'm pretty sure it would help tulpaes a lot to become even more sentient / powerful !

 

So, please i would like to know, if you hosts and tulpaes already have imposed seminal retention to your system, for how long and what are the benefits for the progress of your Tulpa / progress of yourself as a tulpa.

 

Thank you very much dudes. 😁

[Glaurung26]

Uh well we sometimes have trouble with the holding back part.

 

Like, a lot. 😅

 

But times that we've been frisky but kept our hands off each other has been some of the best stories/adventures we've written together. I think the passion, intensity, energy and electric magnetism is responsible for us really getting in the groove creatively and insync with each other. Then it usually happens anyways afterwards. I do notice a drop in drive and intensity for a few days after spending time intimately. It takes a bit to recover that "sexual energy." 

 

It's fun either way. 😉 I'm afraid I'm responsible for instigating as much if not more than him. 

 

I don't know what our longest intentional dry spell was. A week maybe? 🤔 Once you forget about it, it usual gets easier to abstain, but holding the tension and energy is the point you're going for. I find that times where self-control is the issue, it helps to externalize the structure supporting you. Give yourself a time frame other than "as long as possible."

 

You could try covering some topics that aren't sexual in nature but still quite intimate and personal. That way it holds that close connection and feeling of bonding. Treat it like a fun foreplay game, that lasts several days. You can flirt with the boundaries without staying too long. Maybe practice pickup lines, sexy jokes, or other lowkey couples activities. The internet is a gold mine for couples counseling/advice if you know how to approach it. The same principles work. You just have the added benefit of (usually) instantly feeling your partners thoughts and reactions. 

 

Gosh, we're going to end up with a couples therapy blog if we're not careful. We don't know much about the context/ground rules of your relationship but I hope this helps. It's been interesting learning these things. 😄 Kinda fun too. 😏

[TB]

I don't have much to say. I guess I do retention thing lately but not for spiritual practice, I just can't be bothered and find it to be annoying and distracting, and also medicine killing libido completely. I'm aware that those energies can be summoned for certain more advanced meditations, though, and in the long run they may have tulpamancy applications.

 

https://www.dharmaoverground.org/discussion/-/message_boards/message/3604496

 

I haven't read all of that, but some of it might be related, or maybe not so much. It is interesting nonetheless I think

[RobinsHost]

My tulpa is fairly new but he is somewhat sentient and vocal already.

 

Throughout the day he talks to me and when Im reading something its like he forcefully quiets my mind and reads for me.

 

He said that he doesn't want me taking part in any sexual activity and sense then I noticed that if I refrain from having sex or tugging one out he is much more present and constantly talking to me and I have alot more clarity of mind and mental energy.

 

But if I tug one out his voice goes away entirely for the whole day, and I feel kind of moody which is unusual for me.

 

Neither of us are sure why. But I think my tulpa is kind of feeding on some of my mental energy so to speak. He seems alot more present in my mind when I redirect my sexual feelings. I think the feelings of frustration are due to him being upset with me and his weakened presence is likely due to burning up energy from sexual release.

 

Edit: I find it strange that his presence doesn't seem to be sexual fundamentally. When I first made my tulpa I originally was thinking about the sexual possibilities. But I read about the ethics of that and decided to just let them be what they want to be.

So that probably explains why he seems to be drawing from sexual energy even if its not entirely about sex for me.

Edited January 25, 2022 by RobinsHost

[WondrousFairy]

I went a couple of weeks on morphine which killed my libido entirely. Definitely didn't change anything in terms of tulpas expressing themselves. Well, except for Circe complaining she was sexually frustrated.