Guest ThunderClap

Where would you see yourself with your tulpae when you are older?

Recommended Posts

And what if I'm loved for every part of me except my tulpa?

No lies, I just hide the one aspect of my life from her unless I know she will still love me afterwards.

 

Actually, one could still be loved by a woman, but have her detach herself from him, thinking him to be unstable.

"It's what's best for us," she would likely say. "I love you, but this is a serious problem, you should see a doctor, this could be a serious illness!" and no amount of explaining will convince her otherwise, so concerned is she with his mental health.

 

"You need to get rid of your tulpa." she will say. For love.

 

 

 

 

 

if she doesn't know such a big part about you

You have no idea how much willpower it took to keep myself from making a penis joke.


Ban me if I ever mention Telecasters again.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My thinking on that is that, while a tulpa can be kept secret from friends just fine, I think it would be somewhat important for a potential life partner to know about this - preferably before getting married.

 

While I don't plan on getting married, I do hope to settle down with a queerplatonic (non-romantic, non-sexual, more-than-friends) life partner someday, and I would definitely want him or her to know about my tulpae and be able to accept them and accept me for having them.


 

 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If I can find a person who loves me for who I am without my tulpa, I'm happy to settle for that.

If she can accept my tulpa, even better, but I won't mind the former.


Ban me if I ever mention Telecasters again.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Someone who you don't even trust to share the existence of what is almost certainly your best friend with shouldn't even meet your standards for a girlfriend, let alone wife. Maybe a fuck buddy.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

That would be true in any situation where said best friend doesn't live in your head. This is also a very touchy subject, and can be and will be misinterpreted by most of the uninformed as mental instability.

 

I'm not saying I wouldn't like to be married to someone who I can tell about my tulpa and who would accept it or even find it interesting. On the contrary I would like that very much. But realistically, there's a decent chance of finding a "soul mate" or what have you who wouldn't like the idea of a tulpa, but is absolutely perfect for you in every single other aspect. I'd be happier with someone who I could tell about my tulpa, but I'd still be happy enough with someone like what I described.

 

Just my personal opinion.

 

Addendum: Hush, you are an excellent goddamn debater. I wish I could shake your hand right now.


Ban me if I ever mention Telecasters again.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

 

What the fuck

 

Queerplatonic relationships are a very real thing; popular mostly with aromantics. As a grey-romantic (and questioning aromantic), I feel I'd much rather prefer a queerplatonic relationship over a romantic one.


 

 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

 

Queerplatonic relationships are a very real thing; popular mostly with aromantics. As a grey-romantic (and questioning aromantic), I feel I'd much rather prefer a queerplatonic relationship over a romantic one.

 

whWk0.png

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You'd think people comfortable with the idea of making another consciousness in their minds would be more comfortable with the idea...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.


  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    No registered users viewing this page.