Tzz March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 Hey guys, after stumbling across the topic of Tulpae by accident and reading some of the guides on this site and forum (Irish's FAQman's and some others in the Great Big List of Guides) I am interested in creating a tulpa. I guess it's a mixture of skepticism and sheer curiosity. After thinking about what kinda of tulpa I'd want to create, I decided on a a tulpa that would be like a younger sister to me. (I'd feel more comfortable with a girl around rather than a guy) Now, I've got several questions that I couldn't really find the answer to: 1. Is there a possibility that the tulpa would become jealous of the relationship of me and my girlfriend? 2. If yes, how could I prevent this happening? Would I have to take certain precautions during the forcing or is it something that I would have to sort out once my tulpa has come into existence? I don't really want to get started with this before clearing my doubts about these issues. I hope my questions make sense and you guys can help me out.
fennecfoxx March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 It shouldn't be a problem. I have a boyfriend; my tulpae aren't jealous, and neither are his. Deluded myself into believing my imaginary friends were real, then deluded myself into thinking they weren’t. Whatever the case, the OG gang’s still here: Host: fennec (they/them) Tulpas: Alex (he/him) and Kayleigh (she/her) Delete all memories of those who know my awkward past
KenzieK March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 I guess if you're worried about it you could make sure she only thinks of you as a brother/ friend. It really shouldn't be a problem though. Tulpas generally have a deep and sincere understanding of their creaters since they pretty much live in you're mind. The tulpa u create should understand u Name-Yuki Sex-Female Form1-Arctic wolf, big blue eyes Form2-Long white hair, blue eyes, pale skin, white wolf ears/tail, light blue jacket Personality-Compassionate, calm, sarcastic, playful, protective, introverted Stage-Sentient, vocal, working on possession
Lacquer March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 http://tulpa.info/guides/frequently-asked-questions.html#sec-1-4 No.
glitchthe3rd March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 It shouldn't be a problem. I have a boyfriend; my tulpae aren't jealous, and neither are his. >I have a boyfriend >claims to be asexual What. "Science isn't about why, science is about why not?" -Cave Johnson Tulpae: Luna, Elise, Naomi My progress report
Loveandkrieg March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 >I have a boyfriend >claims to be asexual What. Because love has to be sexual, always. Because asexual people are incapable of romantic love, you see. The only reason people might ever wish to share an emotional connection is to touch each other's porn parts, of course. Asexual and dating? It's really not that strange. Anyway, to answer the OP's question, it shouldn't be a problem. My SO has been aware of my Tulpa from the word go and it's worked out well so far. Your Tulpa will only become jealous if they're the type to become jealous. If you're worried about it, simply tell the Tulpa that love is not a zero-sum game: You having a girlfriend is no more an impediment to loving your tulpa than you having a family is an impediment to your feelings for your girlfriend, or a second child means a mother cares less for its first. The idea that love is a zero-sum game is really an arbitrary and false idea: As long as you make sure your Tulpa understands that, it shouldn't become jealous.
Aarix March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 >I have a boyfriend >claims to be asexual What. Theres a difference between Aromantic and Asexual Soon, tulpas will be arguably be the biggest part of you. If its something they can't accept, either give them time or it wouldn't be worth the relationship in the long run. It really should'nt be a problem. Let her be fully aware what intails in a tulpa-host relationship and let it be clear it is its own category of relationship. Your tulpa may be LIKE a little sister but they're your tulpa above anything. There will be no need to be jealous. Progress report "You'll have a Tulpa because you didn't give up" -Koomer
Tzz March 27, 2013 Author March 27, 2013 Thank you all for answering and clearing my doubts. I'm gonna go ahead and start tulpaforcing once I'm done with Uni this summer. (might come back with more questions later;) )
Aarix March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 Thank you all for answering and clearing my doubts. I'm gonna go ahead and start tulpaforcing once I'm done with Uni this summer. (might come back with more questions later;) ) Glad to help, we'll be around if you have any more questions. Progress report "You'll have a Tulpa because you didn't give up" -Koomer
waffles March 27, 2013 March 27, 2013 1. The most obvious answer is that it depends on your tulpa. Like a person, if your tulpa is the jealous type then they may well get jealous. 2. I'm sure you're aware of the personality step. You could make your tulpa not jealous, or a reasonable person, or any kind of quality that would defuse this problem.
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