Tzz March 27, 2013 Author March 27, 2013 1. The most obvious answer is that it depends on your tulpa. Like a person, if your tulpa is the jealous type then they may well get jealous. 2. I'm sure you're aware of the personality step. You could make your tulpa not jealous, or a reasonable person, or any kind of quality that would defuse this problem. I know that if you focus on giving her the right personality it shouldn't be a problem. I was more concerned about the fact that your subconscious has an influence on it as well and that negative thoughts might just create a jealous tulpa. As someone here said, I guess I'll just have to discuss it with her if the issue comes up. Considering you guys said it's not an issue I'm confident that it won't happen now anyway. Thanks. :)
Chupi March 28, 2013 March 28, 2013 1. Also depends on what sort of relationship you have with your tulpa. If it's "little sister/big brother", they're probably a lot less likely to get jealous than if the relationship were "gf/bf". But even if one has a romantic relationship with a tulpa, it's possible to view it as different in kind from a romantic relationship with another physical human. A tulpa relationship can be far more open and you can read each other perfectly. An IRL relationship involves more surprise and finding out about the other person. It's possible to have both, even if you've borrowed the IRL terminology to use for this sort of relationship we have no neat term for. 2. Emphasize to the tulpa that they'll always be with you and you'll always love them as much as you do now, no matter who else you may share your life with. And as a tulpa, they can be far closer to you than anyone else can ever possibly be. Lyra: human female, ~17 Evan: boy, ~14, was an Eevee Anera: anime-style girl, ~12; Lyra made her My blog :: Time expectations are bad (forcing time targets are good though)
Lacquer March 28, 2013 March 28, 2013 2. Emphasize to the tulpa that they'll always be with you and you'll always love them as much as you do now, no matter who else you may share your life with. And as a tulpa, they can be far closer to you than anyone else can ever possibly be. Sounds good, but I wouldn't emphasize the bit about the tulpa being "closer to you than anyone else can ever possibly be." That might upset the aforementioned significant other.
Tzz March 28, 2013 Author March 28, 2013 Another question actually. Can I tell my tulpa to "take the weekend off" (just have them leave/not be there somehow) when my girlfriend is visiting? I think it'd be a bit creepy having sex with my girlfriend whilst my tulpa is in the same room.
Sands March 28, 2013 March 28, 2013 This very same tupper can watch you change your clothes, take a shower, poop and masturbate. And you're bothered with the sex thing because why? But then again, you ask them not to bother you, they're most likely not going to drop by suddenly in the middle of sexy time. Unless they're assholes. But they're always there and able to share your senses, if you can't handle that then you might want to think what this whole tupper thing means to you. The THE SUBCONCIOUS ochinchin occultists frt.sys (except Roswell because he doesn't want to be a part of it)
Tzz March 28, 2013 Author March 28, 2013 This very same tupper can watch you change your clothes, take a shower, poop and masturbate. And you're bothered with the sex thing because why? But then again, you ask them not to bother you, they're most likely not going to drop by suddenly in the middle of sexy time. Unless they're assholes. But they're always there and able to share your senses, if you can't handle that then you might want to think what this whole tupper thing means to you. Once we come around to it, it might not bother me. But thinking about it at the moment just seems odd since it's hard to imagine what it's like once I've actually created a tulpa. It's just good to know that they'd not bother me if asked so long as I give them a decent personality.
fennecfoxx March 28, 2013 March 28, 2013 Another question actually. Can I tell my tulpa to "take the weekend off" (just have them leave/not be there somehow) when my girlfriend is visiting? I think it'd be a bit creepy having sex with my girlfriend whilst my tulpa is in the same room. Your tulpa could just go off somewhere in the wonderland. Deluded myself into believing my imaginary friends were real, then deluded myself into thinking they weren’t. Whatever the case, the OG gang’s still here: Host: fennec (they/them) Tulpas: Alex (he/him) and Kayleigh (she/her) Delete all memories of those who know my awkward past
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