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I wouldn't show it as much as be vulnerable when it's appropriate. I'm not hide to the bone. I gauge a person by how they interact with said vulnerability: if they find me weak or wont to manipulation, I have an intuitive drive to resist them to the point of tantamount hostility, and if they accept it, it factors that much better into my overall assessment. I don't much care about the opinions of others to humour critiques like neediness.
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Bed time, good night, everyone! π π΄
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Nightfall and Shaula's Imposition Progress Report
Nightfall replied to Nightfall's topic in Progress Reports
Forgot a week again. You (probably) know what that means. June 2nd 2026 5 minute session June 3rd-5th 2026 Shoot, I forgot to write again. I forgot what I did for the first day but the other two I managed to get 10 minutes each day. June 6-7th 2026 Skipped for various reasons. June 8th 2026 One 8 minute session until I got tired. Part of that was because I was focusing a lot on how Shaula felt more physical today. It felt a lot like not jiggly jello or something. It was great but I probably used too much brain power for close to bedtime. June 9-11th 2026 I don't really know what happened but I forgot a day. I'm writing this on the 12th and I only remember two days. Anyway, at least one of those days there was a similar feeling but a bit lighter. I also skipped yesterday because I wanted to test something. I also know I got a 10 minute session. June 12th 2026 Experiment failed. Since I had missed a day before I had that great session, I figured doing the same might recreate it. Nope, it was the same as the more recent sessions. Can't complain though. June 13th 2026 6 minute session. Not much to say. June 14th 2026 Five minute sessions or didn't do. June 15th 2026 Five minute session in bed and it was nice to mix things up a little bit. -
Aww, no worries at all! π It happens. I'm glad to hear you've been keeping up with everything too! π Aww! Cute! π That's a nice dream! One should not deny how nice hugs feel, lol. Complete 180 on dream subject, lol. At least it was only a dream but poor you. Great to hear! π Awesome! π€© Happy birthday to all them! π πππ Awesome! π€© Proud of you for keeping it up for so long! π I hope you have a nice time on there! π It's sounds great! Guinea pig! π₯° Oh, right, other stuff./j That's really cool! π I bet it was super nice to feel someone hugging you! π Cool stuff! π Aww, those are soooo cute! π₯° Great find! π Oof hate it when that happens.
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Edit: good night, Bre! π It's probably just to get the other person to expand on it. I feel like that's one of those questions that's hard to not want to add to. Definitely agree with that it is not a simple answer either. Hi, Remy! π Understandable, I hope you all had fun! π
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Hiiiii Remy Here! Im Pierrotβs best friend. We were a bit distracted last weekend but i got to talk here eventually.
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yeah. even things like "it's better to be honest" aren't always true. a lot of the time it's better to hold back your opinion in order to protect someone's feelings, or in the case of showing weakness, if you're not careful about who you show, it will end up being used against you
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I've always wondered a bit why people like to ask questions like this that frame an indefinite problem into having an unerring solution. Like, there's definitely different situations that call for showing weakness and hiding it respectively, but if I'm to answer the question I have to choose one and say"yes always do that"... I might be getting some social background information wrong and the question isn't actually supposed to be taken like that, but still. Given the context of "talk between coworkers", I would probably say (to the coworkers) that showing weakness is a good thing, and maintain silently that it isn't. It's sort of my instinct now to hide all and any weakness, but saying that probably wouldn't leave not-that-familiar people with a good impression of me. Then again I haven't been to work of any sort, so what do I know.
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Might be the best advice I've heard you give. π
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You'll always be known for something, so there's no better option than to be authentic so you don't have to feel pressured to be a character that people will be able to sniff out anyway To be respected in the workplace, I feel like you have to show the right kind of weakness, and that usually takes some trial and error. It's almost like you have to feel comfortable with messing up because you have to both figure out your own points of failure and figure out what usually gives people a hard time. And in the end people will just assume it's all part of the way you work Some of the most emotionally outspoken coworkers at the pool are some of my favorite to be around, strangely regardless of how often they get on my nerves sometimes. Not in like an overbearing way, but because they just have so much to say
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Fennec's got it. π
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I slept through the night last night, so no SSILD. I did have a dream where I was narrating what I was doing to a tulpa. Either it wasn't clear in the dream who I was talking to or I forgot after I woke up, but a voice answered when I wondered who it was. It sounded like my own mindvoice but was entirely autonomous. We had a conversation that went something like this: The voice confirmed this, and then the conversation quickly lost coherence and I fell back asleep. It was unnerving at the time, but I guess it was just a product of a half-asleep mind. In other news, we saw Sheep Detectives today. Good film.
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Honestly is usually best. Asking for help is also good (if only for your own sake), so long as you don't cross the line into expecting others to do everything for you.
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Heavily depends on the person and where. Some people see vulnerable as something to exploit and some (like me) see it as something to protect. I think being honest is the best option but you don't need to let on how vulnerable you are all the time either. We have minor moments that we don't share but we wouldn't lie about them either. Basically, I really can't give a yes or no, lol.
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it's neutral without context
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Too much of it makes you a pushover, too little and you end up becoming distant from everyone you know Like lumi
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Slow lastpostingness today Interesting subject today between my coworkers: would you say showing a sign of weakness is a good/bad thing? Some say it's good because you're being honest, but some say it's bad because it paints you as a needy person π€
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Should add it to my list. Edit: did figure out what was causing Nightfall's art block or whatever. Caring too much about all sorts of little things. Just drawing and not thinking helps a lot. π
