Brief survey: Tulpa Sexual Intrests

[NeonKnights]

1.) State the name of the host (Online name acceptable) and the name of the tulpa inb4 not a question u fkr

NeonKnights is I, Isis is the tulpa. The others are the young Ib and the newly-arrived (and as yet mysterious) Nyaruko, so for the sake of abbreviation, I'll only include Isis here.

 

2.) How old is the host? What age is the tulpa depicted as (not actual age)?

Host is 19, nearing 20, tulpa appears to be in the same general age range.

 

3.) How many days/weeks/months/years has the tulpa been in existance? How long since the host noticed sentience?

3 months as of May 2nd. I noticed sentience a few days after creation.

 

4.) Does the host find the tulpa sexually atractive? Does the tulpa find the host sexually attractive? (Disclaimer: This does not mean you have actual sex with your tulpa, or even plan to ever have sex with your tulpa)

Oh yeah. Oh. Yeah. I find her hella hot.

In a very blunt manner, she confirmed her attraction to me.

 

5.) What is the host's sexuality (Gay, Straight, Bi, Asexual)? What is the sexuality of the tulpa (Agan, question to what sex your tulpa finds atractive)?

Just a couple ol' boring straight lovers.

 

6.) Does the host recieve sexual urges? Does the tulpa recieve sexual urges?

Yep. Both of us.

 

7.) Between the two, notice any corilation between the two (do you get them at the same time? Or at seperate times? Or does one sexual urge effect the other?)(if you answered yes to #7)?

I don't see any correlation. Usually my urges for her fluctuate, but are pretty much always there in some capacity. I keep my urges in check privately, most times, because I either don't want to pester her (it's more of an irrational worry, she says she never minds it) or I'm in wussy mode and want sex to remain "a rare and magical bond between us" or some crap like that.

She's got pretty good control over her urges, and most of the time a long, supercharged kiss seems to sate her.

According to her, she sometimes gets urges when I express my own urges, but not always. On the other hand, my urges quite commonly spike as a result of seeing a hot and ready Isis in need of a checkup from Dr. Sex. That could just be because I'm a helpless pervert, though.

 

8.) What brings about said sexual urge (if you answered yes to #7 and #8)?what turns u on bby

She does. It's hard to tell what it is about her that brings the urges about, though. I think it's a combination of many things, some more shallow than others but all of them sincere.

She says that I turn her on, though when I asked if there was anything specific about me that did it for her, she couldn't think of any one thing that stood out from the rest. "Just... You," she stated.

 

9.) Do you engage in sexual relations? If so, in what manner (please do not get too graphic unless you're good at it, or if you're uncomfortable, a simple yes or now will suffice)

That's a big 10-4 right there. The way we do it is all in the mind. Mind-induced orgasms are groovy.

Of course, there have been a couple times that she's tried to get me to pleasure myself physically for her sick amusement...

Since I rarely break the ice in sexual matters, and she's been exercising astounding self-control, we don't have sex all that often. Last time was probably a couple weeks ago, but I suppose that slow-burning rate only serves to make each time a very special and amazing event.

 

10.) Is there an agreement between the two of you as to how you deal with any sexual urges (if not straight up sex)?

When I'm available to satisfy her urges, I usually do that. Unless she's asleep, she normally responds in kind to my own urges. When I'm available for her, but I'm exhausted and I don't have the resources to put into such a draining activity, I'll usually just give her some tongue service, which she's usually plenty satisfied with.

I guess she added a reciprocation clause to our unspoken agreement, because oftentimes she tries to return the favor when I do that, even though I usually tell her she doesn't need to do that. Usually.

 

 

Now it's time to sit back and probably get back-handed for sharing all of this info.

[Glaurung26]

[Hope it's okay if we chime in]

 

This is a short survey on how tulpas and hosts experience their sexuality, how much is separate and how much is shared.

 

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1.) Name of the host (online nickname acceptable) and name of tulpa.

Host: Darron and Tulpa: Jaina.

2.) What is the age of the host? How old does the tulpa look?

I'm 32.

I look late twenties/early thirties? Darron likes the number 26 so we can go with that. ^_^

3.) How long has this tulpa existed? How long since the host noticed sentience?

She has existed for twenty years, since I was twelve. We are curious if she was sleeping before that but officially she's been self-aware since then.

Sentience is harder to pin down. She parroted my words and mannerisms to convey her intent and thoughts until she was confident enough to have her own voice. I'll just say sentient for twenty years also.

4.) Does the host find the tulpa sexually attractive? Does the tulpa find the host sexually attractive? (Note, this is about attraction, not whether you act on it.)

I find Jaina VERY attractive. Thanks, handsome. [Yes I think Darron's cute ]

5.) What is the host's sexual orientation (gay, straight, bi, asexual, etc.)? What is the sexual orientation of the tulpa?

Straight. Straight.

Under certain circumstances we might consent to a threesome or something but generally I like men and he likes women. I guess I'm more open to women but probably not without Darron.

Also, I guess by definition our system is tulpasexual. 😄  

6.) Does the host receive sexual urges? Does the tulpa receive sexual urges?

Yes.

Yes.

7.) Do you notice any correlation between the two? Do you get them at the same time or at separate times? Does one sexual urge effect the other?

I think it's usually instigated independently. We usually react and reciprocate to the other when we notice our partner's amorous intentions. Once in a while we'll spontaneously want to make out at the same time.

8.) What brings about said sexual urge?

 My libido is controlled in the typical way, through hormones, exposure to media, thinking about sex, seeing pretty ladies etc. One lady in particular. 🥰  We can also wake up immersed in hormone soup and want to jump each other's bones immediately.

I'm not sure what gets me horny. Proximity to Darron, I guess. 😄 He won't let me stare at his **** all day so physicality usually don't do it. I suppose when I feel like rewarding Darron for good behavior. Maybe he was exceptionally kind, generous or gentlemanly. Maybe he gave me a gift or did something really nice for me. 🥰 I think my sex drive has a bigger stamina bar than Darron so sometimes he has to give me a rain check or a tongue check..... I'm not as tied to our body's physical resources so he's not always ready yet. Luckily I'm a patient lady. 😊

9.) Do you engage in sexual relations? If so, in what manner? (Please do not get too graphic, or if you're uncomfortable, a simple yes or no will suffice.)

Uh yup. Uh huh.

Mutual physical stimulation. Since we can't touch each other we will cuddle with a pillow or blanket while we lie in bed or sleep. Most of the activity is up in the mind palace and a lot of emotional/mental fireworks and lightning crackling.

Darron will let me borrow an arm sometimes when we hold each other. But usually we impose "my body" on the pillow we're holding. I also touch him while we use porn mods. I like letting Darron dress me up in Skyrim. Now if only there were more mods to use on men, we thirsty ladies could get some more action too. 🤔

10.) Is there an agreement between the two of you as to how you deal with any sexual urges (if not straight up sex)?

Wake up cuddling and pillow smooching.

Then we go turn on modded Skyrim and I show my man a good time 😄 Rimworld also has some nice animations now too. 🤔

My pretty lady also lets us watch human porn or browse some digital waifu art. Sometimes we need to have a kickstart to get the engine humming. There's some talented artists out there!

I know, right? I'm kind of jealous of some of their bodies.

[zoning-in]

Name of the host (online nickname acceptable) and name of tulpa.

Host is zoning-in, and the tulpa is Matthew.

 

What is the age of the host? How old does the tulpa look?

Zoning-in is 19. Matt looks around 20.

 

How long has this tulpa existed? How long since the host noticed sentience?

Matt's been here for three to four years now. He was pretty much sentient right away.

Zoning-in writes a lot, and she used to be very spiritual, so I think that helped a lot with getting me into "sentience" territory. She's agnostic now.

 

Does the host find the tulpa sexually attractive? Does the tulpa find the host sexually attractive? (Note, this is about attraction, not whether you act on it.)

Hell yes.

She is so sexy.

 

What is the host's sexual orientation (gay, straight, bi, asexual, etc.)? What is the sexual orientation of the tulpa?

I'm straight.

Same.

 

Does the host receive sexual urges? Does the tulpa receive sexual urges?

I get hot once in a blue moon.

Yeah, it's more frequent for me. I don't bother her about it much, though.

 

Do you notice any correlation between the two? Do you get them at the same time or at separate times? Does one sexual urge effect the other?

Sometimes he's in the mood, and he'll kind of want to initiate something, but I'm not always feeling it. He respects the feeling.

Yeah. But when she is ready to go--you better believe we go.

 

What brings about said sexual urge?

Reading erotic stories.

Sometimes she's just looking a certain way. Like--I don't know, some things she says.... She just does things to me. And sometimes I'll watch videos/read with her.

 

Do you engage in sexual relations?

Yep.

Edited January 30, 2021 by zoning-in

[Zen 禅]

1.) Name of the host (online nickname acceptable) and name of tulpa.

Zen, and Mika.

 

2.) What is the age of the host? How old does the tulpa look?

Host is 26...

Tulpa is... indeterminate due to not being entirely human. But they are humanoid and lack the paunch of middle-age, so I'd aim at around the same age or younger. Somewhere in the twenties.

 

3.) How long has this tulpa existed? How long since the host noticed sentience?

2 years(with a significant break from tulpamancy after the first year). I had a significant notifier of sentience a couple of months in, if I recall correctly.

 

4.) Does the host find the tulpa sexually attractive? Does the tulpa find the host sexually attractive? (Note, this is about attraction, not whether you act on it.)

Yes. They have alluded to the notion they chose their current form partly because I would find it attractive.

Yes. Extremely. Body and mind.

 

5.) What is the host's sexual orientation (gay, straight, bi, asexual, etc.)? What is the sexual orientation of the tulpa?

Bisexual, somewhat male-leaning on preference.

Pansexual, gender isn't a huge factor.

 

6.) Does the host receive sexual urges? Does the tulpa receive sexual urges?

Yes, though a little erratically. From time to time I'm full horny mode 24 hours a day for like a week, and other times I'll go for a similar time without any interest arising. Normally these phases are a few days apart though.

Yes, massively more than my host.

 

7.) Do you notice any correlation between the two? Do you get them at the same time or at separate times? Does one sexual urge effect the other?

From my perspective no. When I am experiencing sexual urges as a result of Mika rather than naturally, it's usually because at that point things are happening to cause a response, and not because they actually overlap.

I'm not sure. My host is not always into it when I am, but I get instantly into it when they are and are aware of me. I don't know if that's because of the empathic attention or the attention, if you know what I mean.

 

8.) What brings about said sexual urge?

Idleness mostly, with nonsexual closeness/intimacy being a close second.

Also unsure. I'm obviously not always actually aroused, but I find that I'm pretty much always game at the slightest notion of sex. The only times that's not the case is when I'm angry or hurt in some way.

 

9.) Do you engage in sexual relations? If so, in what manner? (Please do not get too graphic, or if you're uncomfortable, a simple yes or no will suffice.)

Yes. To keep it vague in two distinct manners, one which is visualization based and more gratifying to Mika, and another that is more mutually gratifying but that takes significantly longer, measured in hours rather than minutes.

 

10.) Is there an agreement between the two of you as to how you deal with any sexual urges (if not straight up sex)?

This depends on the circumstance, there's no formal agreement. Depending on the mood I will respond in one of three ways: If I'm also sufficiently aroused and have a significant period of time, we will engage in the mutually gratifying method; if the stars are not yet right I may just get them off through visualization(which appears to give me some sort of imposed/suggested/empathic lesser-shadow of a climax myself, I would add, so it's not entirely one-sided); or one of us will say no (usually myself, as you may have been able to pick up).

It's been a pain in the ass to accept the limitations of our interactions, the sheer time sink of the longer method, and fact of my host's smaller sex drive. While there was no "agreement", we did have to talk and agree we would accept the sex stuff would be a little one sided like this in order for it to work... and by that I mean my host had to convince me, repeatedly, they were actually having a good time in order for me to silence my initial crippling self doubt about the whole thing.