Are there any female tulpamancers out there?

[Zer0.iNSaNiTY]

Oh no, my first post was laced with teen girlyness XD It was mostly on the IRC like i said, everyone always kept assuming i was a dude and after i while i just went ’screw it’ and just stopped trying to get them to remember. Reasoning behind this is probably cuz though i do tend to act/talk like a guy, it shows up more when im just talking to ya in short brief messages rather than long-winded replies which tend to get bogged down with more emoticons and happy-go-luckiness XD Seriously ,you look at each sentence here seperately and it could probably pass for a dude, but then put together it somehow becomes girly, idk.

 

To draw a parallel i shall direct you to Forseen who worries more about how he looks than i do XD Seriously, he spent like a whole hour trying to figure out what to wear once. Like dude, you live in my head, im the only one who’s gonna see you, it doesnt matter. Lol he gets sooo pissed at me when i dress like a slob XD

[hihifofo]

To draw a parallel i shall direct you to Forseen who worries more about how he looks than i do XD Seriously, he spent like a whole hour trying to figure out what to wear once. Like dude, you live in my head, im the only one who’s gonna see you, it doesnt matter. Lol he gets sooo pissed at me when i dress like a slob XD

 

Do you find that although your tulpa's sex/gender is male he acts more female than you do? >.<

 

Just typing that made me curious - do you consider tulpas to have a definite "sex", or would tulpas only have genders? If I could elaborate, human "sex" is what they are born as and "gender" is what they identify as... so keeping in mind that tulpas can switch between male/female at will, would there ever be such a thing as a transgendered tulpa?

 

I'd like to write a whole other thread about this but I'm both afraid it's been done before and I also don't want to spam the forum lol.

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I'd like to write a whole other thread about this but I'm both afraid it's been done before and I also don't want to spam the forum lol.

 

I've personally not encountered that exact topic in my searches or time here, so I say go for it!

[Zer0.iNSaNiTY]

Do you find that although your tulpa's sex/gender is male he acts more female than you do? >.<

 

Really only with the clothes-hair-appearance thing, otherwise he's pretty boyish. Always playing some video game, annoying Muse with dirty jokes, etc, etc. It's why I always joke with him and call him a metrosexual XD He does notice guys more often than I do, though this probably stems again from his affinity for the well-dressed. Seriously, there's this guy in my class he really likes, not cuz he knows him, but cuz he always dresses neatly (at the very least a v-necked shirt, never baggy jeans or anything, pretty well kept over all) versus the usual dude outfit of like, hoodie/t-shirt and jeans/shorts. Also, he enjoys shopping, which is a choreeee for me. Like, I walked into Urban Planet like "oh this is cool" and he's turned all fangirly on me in my head XD Okay maybe not fangirly, but he was really happy. Having no sense of style myself and my friend continuously bothering me to try stuff on and say if I like it or not, I relied on him the whole time to sound like I had some idea what to do/say, literally just reiterating what he said in my head outloud and choosing the one he chooses between two different coloured shirts and stuff.

 

Also, I should mention even though he cares about his appearance, he's usually dressed in some punk-ish outfit instead of the metro dress shirt and tie. Not that he doesn't wear dress shirts and ties, he just tends to wear jackets and chains too.

 

Just typing that made me curious - do you consider tulpas to have a definite "sex", or would tulpas only have genders? If I could elaborate, human "sex" is what they are born as and "gender" is what they identify as... so keeping in mind that tulpas can switch between male/female at will, would there ever be such a thing as a transgendered tulpa?

 

I'd like to write a whole other thread about this but I'm both afraid it's been done before and I also don't want to spam the forum lol.

 

I kinda /have/ a transgendered tulpa. Lemme explain. Forseen and Muse are twins, and they can merge and split kinda at will. When they merge, they form my third tulpa Alix. Now, when it comes to sexes, Forseen is male and Muse has no sex (she has the form of a ball jointed doll and I've asked her if she wanted any genitalia, answer was a resounding no). Being that way, when creating her original form I gave her a feminine form (I was basically freaking out cuz I had the merge of Muse and Forseen's 'souls' or 'essences' and their forms had disintegrated, so I literally just pulled a form outta my ass), a.k.a., I made a form that looked like a girl. Put the glowly ball essence thing in, badaboom, she starts talking to me and immediately starts freaking me out. I didn't ask for her gender yet, but I did ask if she had a name. She came up with something so I asked if she was a girl, but then she looked confused and said something along the lines of "that does sound like a girl's name doesn't it?" and changed it to Alex. Anyways, still freaking out, she split back to Muse and Forseen. Blah blah blah.

Anyways, after doing this her form didn't entirely disappear yet, so I kinda observed it carefully and- guess what- she had a penis. Uh-huh. Yeah. I didn't put that there, the best guess I could give is the form chose by default male genitalia since it was the only one available from the two counterparts.

 

Several months later, I now have Alix. She still only forms from the merging of Forseen and Muse, but we're working on that. She identifies as female after a discovery that her form, personality, and pretty much identity stemmed from an old servitor imaginary friend I had when I was like 9, except grown up to my age. However, she still has her penis and she refuses to change it. I honestly don't know why, every time I ask her the response is just "i like it" or "it's more convenient" in which that last reason makes no sense, cuz it's not like she needs to use it >.>;

 

|Well if I ever /do/ need to use it, it's more convenient.|

Again, exactly /when/ will you ever need to use it?

|I don't know stop getting on my case about it!|

[PsychoticDoc]

Me and my girlfriend both have tulpas.

[KenzieK]

I am of the female realm.

 

My tulpa is also female.

[Azure]

I'm female, I have two male tulpas, and one female.

[velvetaboveground]

Oi *raises hand* I’m a girl, though I tend to act more like a dude *shrugs*

 

Zer0.iNSaNiTY I'm going to give you a tip. You seem nice and you're only 15, so don't take this the wrong way.

 

You sound like one of those girls who goes around telling everybody how she "thinks like a guy" and "doesn't get along with girls" and "isn't girly!!!111". I see this a lot. I think part of it is a function of society telling women that to be taken seriously, we have to be "like a man". I think part of it is that teenage girls seem to think boys will be more interested in them if they are "one of the guys". Hell, I sort of did it when I was your age, which is probably why I am so sensitive to it now.

 

You're subscribing to a gender binary that doesn't exist. You're indirectly putting down your own gender. Probably you absolutely do act like a teenage girl, and there's literally nothing wrong with that. And even so, what does acting like a guy even mean? Some of us play rugby and then go home and put on makeup. Some of us are loudly sexually crass and explicit, some of us are quiet. Some of us like cooking and being domestic. Some of us aren't really all about feelings. Whenever you say you think like a guy, it's literally a meaningless phrase... and it's sending a message to everybody around you that you're insecure about who you are.

[Nobillis]

If I could elaborate, human "sex" is what they are born as and "gender" is what they identify as... so keeping in mind that tulpas can switch between male/female at will, would there ever be such a thing as a transgendered tulpa?

 

Kevin says: "Yeah, it's possible. Before these modern methods tulpas tended to not change genders.

 

Now; my tulpa kerin started female, but the body is male, and she's spent so much time switched that she has become very confused as far as gender goes. Actually, she's better at pretending to be me then I am, having never yet been caught out as other then human IRL.

 

My wife is a tomboy, and I'm a brony. It kinda works, since we've been married more the 26 years now (and been together more then 30). My wife also has a tulpa. (Tulpas are kind of common in my family.)"

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(Edit: Normally Nobillis would merge this thread with another, but I think it's worth revisiting and it has a different enough view to make it worth keeping unique.)

[Zer0.iNSaNiTY]

 

Zer0.iNSaNiTY I'm going to give you a tip. You seem nice and you're only 15, so don't take this the wrong way.

 

 

Np :3

 

You sound like one of those girls who goes around telling everybody how she "thinks like a guy" and "doesn't get along with girls" and "isn't girly!!!111".

 

Know exactly what you're talking about, and I wouldn't say I'm part of that extreme of a group. It's not like I go around screaming how boy-ish I am, I rarely bring that part up. In fact, I only brought that up here cuz of the mistake people kept making in the IRC that irked me, so I just kinda wanna totally make sure that doesn't happen here. I swear it happens on like, half the websites I go to and I honestly cannot pinpoint why e.e; It's becoming less now though, maybe cuz I've layed off with the calling everyone dude and bro thing now XD Nurp, every iz nao potatoes :P

 

I see this a lot. I think part of it is a function of society telling women that to be taken seriously, we have to be "like a man". I think part of it is that teenage girls seem to think boys will be more interested in them if they are "one of the guys". Hell, I sort of did it when I was your age, which is probably why I am so sensitive to it now.

 

Uh, wut. How does that even make sense...? "Oh maybe if I act like a guy a guy will like me!" Err, he's straight for a reason...

But that aside, I dunnno if I just live in a weird part of the world, but I have never heard anyone tell me I have to act like a guy to be taken seriously. To be taken seriously around here you just gotta be in high up classes... or asian XD I'm both! //shot/

 

You're subscribing to a gender binary that doesn't exist. You're indirectly putting down your own gender.

 

Well, I wouldn't say it was a gender binary, just sorta, y'know, I act a bit tomboy-ish...? I don't understand how that'd put down my own gender though, I was just stating that I apparently act more like a guy than a girl, based upon what my parents and friends say.

 

Probably you absolutely do act like a teenage girl, and there's literally nothing wrong with that.

 

'course I do. At least in some ways. Those ways would be.... um.... I brush my hair? XD I dunno, I'll come up with something...

 

And even so, what does acting like a guy even mean? Some of us play rugby and then go home and put on makeup. Some of us are loudly sexually crass and explicit, some of us are quiet. Some of us like cooking and being domestic. Some of us aren't really all about feelings. Whenever you say you think like a guy, it's literally a meaningless phrase...

 

Just simple psychology dude. Among the human race there are things that are considered 'masculine' and 'feminine'. So when a female likes or does something that most people put into the 'masculine', then they say they're 'acting like a boy'. It's just a part of human nature that probably stemmed from our lovely ancestors, where males did more of the defend-territory-and-fight stuff and females did more of the care-for-things-and-make-offspring stuff, it just started that way and that's how we still are.

And if someone says they 'think like a guy', it's not meaningless. First off, the male and female brain are different in certain ways, ex. it's founded that in male brains the inferior-parietal lobe, which controls numerical functions, is larger than in females, so being good at math could be said to be a "guy thing". This doesn't mean females all suck at math, I for one am really good at it :P (lol okai i sound conceited sorry) Because of this, if a female does math just as efficiently as a guy does, it can be said that she "thinks like a guy".

Obviously that's not how most people would mean when they said that. They'd probably go with the whole perverted thing or something, idk. Either way, that's also based on facts. Guys tend to have stronger, more forward sex drives than women. They've been shown to on average think more about sex and seek it more avidly than women. So if a women has a sex drive equal to a male's, then it can be said she acts and thinks like a guy.

 

This of course works in the opposite way too. A guy can do something that is resultly 'feminine' and be said to act like a girl. Care for kids well for example, or cook. Or just be sensitive or something.

 

and it's sending a message to everybody around you that you're insecure about who you are.

 

Now obviously I can't read other people's minds, so I can't speak either way on this part.