Tulpa can't sense my thoughts or talk to me unless I contact her myself

[[Insert_Name_Here]]

So, from my understanding tulpae have the ability to sense what you're thinking, even if you're not explicitly sending them your thoughts, and can talk to you on their own without you necessarily having to initiate the conversation. Well, my tulpa can't seem to do that: she can't sense my thoughts unless I explicitly "send" my thoughts to her, and she can't talk to me outside of my wonderland unless I go into my wonderland and talk to her (though we have been making progress at getting her to be able to talk to me when he wants to). She wants to be able to feel my thoughts because she thinks that she can help me if she could tell what I'm thinking even if I'm not explicitly sending her my thoughts, and we both would like for her to talk to me when she wants to at any point of the day. For example, when I'm down about my self, she can really help me feel better, but she's only able to do that if I reach out to her (which isn't a problem, but I tend to prefer solitude when I'm down) and she wants to be able to come to me when I'm down but she can't know when I am if she can't tell what I'm thinking. And since she can't talk to me unless I go and start talking to her in my wonderland, it's harder for her to come to me to cheer me up. This is just one example of when this issue has caused a hindrance for us and is not the basis of our relationship, but we would both like for her to be able to feel my thoughts and talk to me when she feels like it. Do you guys have any tips that might help? Know of any guides that could help with this issue? Know that she is a vocal tulpa and can speak to me, but I have to go into my wonderland for her to talk to me both there and irl, though it has gotten better and there are times when she does say something to me randomly, but they are few and far between. Thanks for any help.

[Kaga and Company]

It seems to me that this is just an issue of her not being developed enough yet, and that she'll get there in due time. You already said, yourself, that you've been making progress at her being able to talk to you whenever she wants. So, what have you been doing to improve that already? My suggestion: just do more of whatever's already working.

 

If you're already making progress, then I don't think there's anything "wrong" with your tulpa that would hold her back -- you just need to work more on that particular skill. That's all.

[[Insert_Name_Here]]

Ya I figured that was going to be the issue as far as her talking to me. I don't know of any specific forcing practices that could help us with this (I suppose it's just forcing in general, or maybe lots of passive forcing), and that's what I do: passive forcing most of the time when I'm too busy to go in my wonderland and active force there, but can spare a few minutes to go there and "get her attention" so to speak (alot of it she says is not being able to hear me or not being able to hear her) and active forcing when I'm less busy. So I suppose just forcing with her will help with our talking dilemma.

 

I remember reading a forum on here a while ago in which stated a few weeks ago that the brain has to get used to having a tulpa to be able to hear one talk to their host when they want to. Could this also be the case with them being able to feel our thoughts?

[TheSanctuary]

Certainly it's a possability- experiences differ between people- the brains rather complicated and it could well be the case that there just are not any neural links forged between your tulpa and your active emotions. The more development they undergo the more links will be forged and strengthened until they can be accessed without you manually opening the bridge. For some people symbolism works, so perhaps make a door or something in your wonderland and associate it with being a link to your feelings- or maybe a computer screen or colored light that shows your mood etc etc. That way your trying to tell your mind 'these two are linked!' So to speak.

 

Beyond that I would just work with what you have already been doing and you will both get there.