Actinium June 24, 2015 June 24, 2015 I was wondering what you mean by "not a replacement" because Thunder pretty much fills the role a loving wife would What I meant to say is you shouldn't make a tulpa specifically to be your girlfriend or such with no other purpose. Still, if that's what people want to do, I don't have much of a problem with it as long as there's good reasoning behind it. "It's all about synthesis, you don't have to be a real musician. You just synthesize your own reality, synthesize your own talents." -Klayton My Three Mind Horses Haven: Tulpa #1 Created on 10-28-14 Aphelion: Tulpa #2 Created on 2-25-15 Chimera: Self Proclaimed Thoughtform Created on: Can't remember. Sometime around Easter of 2017. Warning: I am a huge nerd.
Guest Anonymous June 24, 2015 June 24, 2015 What I meant to say is you shouldn't make a tulpa specifically to be your girlfriend or such with no other purpose. Still, if that's what people want to do, I don't have much of a problem with it as long as there's good reasoning behind it. Yeah, I agree to that. I think that the purpose is superficial, but it happens without having that in mind most of the time, or that's how I regard my case.
Luminesce June 24, 2015 June 24, 2015 I was wondering what you mean by "not a replacement" because Thunder pretty much fills the role a loving wife would Personal opinion, or maybe a little more than opinion. Some people couldn't imagine having their tulpa be their romantic partner over a human. Some treat their tulpas just like their human significant others. Most don't lump the two together and consider them separate, neither filling the other's place. And some really do fill the space of a human entirely with their tulpa. I hesitate to say it's opinion. It's more like the individual, instinctive need for a companion that differs from person to person. So it's even less arguable than opinions already are. Tulpas are to you what they are to you, there are few broad statements that can apply to every single one of them. Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there.
Ashmo June 25, 2015 June 25, 2015 It still goes to say that creating a tulpa for the purpose of keeping them as a romantic partner is irresponsible and might even been seen as immoral. Not that having a romantic relationship with your tulpa is wrong. Not that at all, but we have to remember that tulpa are real people too. So to put them into a box and say, "You are here to be my girl/boyfriend," is wrong. It needs to be a consenting agreement to host and tulpa.
Guest Anonymous June 25, 2015 June 25, 2015 It still goes to say that creating a tulpa for the purpose of keeping them as a romantic partner is irresponsible and might even been seen as immoral. Not that having a romantic relationship with your tulpa is wrong. Not that at all, but we have to remember that tulpa are real people too. So to put them into a box and say, "You are here to be my girl/boyfriend," is wrong. It needs to be a consenting agreement to host and tulpa. Yeah but I didn't speak of this at all, nor did I bring this up, that was Actinium if anything who brought up that topic while nobody was discussing it. It's depressing to see a tulpa go through that kind of shit because their host wants it that way but I encourage it if it happens later on and both tulpa and host are willing. Personal opinion, or maybe a little more than opinion. Some people couldn't imagine having their tulpa be their romantic partner over a human. Some treat their tulpas just like their human significant others. Most don't lump the two together and consider them separate, neither filling the other's place. And some really do fill the space of a human entirely with their tulpa. I hesitate to say it's opinion. It's more like the individual, instinctive need for a companion that differs from person to person. So it's even less arguable than opinions already are. Tulpas are to you what they are to you, there are few broad statements that can apply to every single one of them. Yeah but that's different. It's not like that because a tulpa can't fill in the role, it's like that because people find it too weird that they can, and would rather not get into it. It feels like dating themselves if anything. I don't know. I found that in tulpamancy but I did not seek it.
Ashmo June 25, 2015 June 25, 2015 Yeah but I didn't speak of this at all, nor did I bring this up, that was Actinium if anything who brought up that topic while nobody was discussing it. It's depressing to see a tulpa go through that kind of shit because their host wants it that way but I encourage it if it happens later on and both tulpa and host are willing. I was just adding to the conversation. I feel that when it comes to the subject of tulpa and love, or tulpa and relationships, it needs to be stated that-like any healthy relationship, one between a tulpa and host has to be done with the consent of all parties involved.
Guest Anonymous June 25, 2015 June 25, 2015 My Melian started as an imaginary girl friend and day dream star. Eventually becoming a thought form after years of intense day dreaming about her. So there has always been that romantic connection. However, as a thought form, she isn't in love with me romantically even though I still have a crush on her. She sees me more as a partner and dear friend, not even so much as a creator. She more just appeared to me than being created. She would resist romantic owership by anyone, as she loves to flirt and have a lot of light romantic interests online. She has several real life "boy friends," and even one "girl friend," she flirts with on deviantart. They know she is a thought form, but that kinda makes it fun and brings some appeal for persons with an imagination. I say Melian is romance personified. ~Mistgod
GlassJustice June 30, 2015 June 30, 2015 I'm in love with my tulpa What this guy said. Host:GlassJustice Tulpa:[Cassandra]
TulpaFox June 30, 2015 June 30, 2015 I personally created a tulpa to be my friend, role-model, colleague, and partner. I don't personally feel what I did was wrong, as eve turned out to be very stable and level headed, more so than I am actually. I think everyone is different though. I don't think anyone should create a tulpa purely for sex though, if someone must, a servitor I would be more suited that that I guess. I consider what I have with Eve consensual, but certainly guided. By guided I mean I poured a lot of that energy and intention into her during the initial creation process, so i could guide that aspect of it. Her personality and appearance I only gave her the template to, she deviates how she feels fit.
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