Host sexuality and tulpa's gender?

[bersinger]

sexual energy. It's too powerful, and I'm too inexperienced to deal with it

anno domini 2013

You make me think about becoming a snake oil dealer, maybe that's a worthwhile career even (or especially) in these days.

[Guest MegaBusta]

I've heeded the warnings of sex-addicted succubus tulpae, and these stories scare me. I don't want to be going about my business and suddenly have Raid rape the shit out of me. So, hatred towards sex, it is.

 

It has never happened. Ever.

[Quadraginta]

 

It has never happened. Ever.

 

Hm. Well, shame on me for believing those stories. I feel kind of noobish now.

 

But I still don't want Raid to feel any sexual feelings.

[cartowheel]

I had to use the last option not because my tulpa is a non-binary gender, but because of my gender. ;w;

 

Chael is a pansexual, panromantic male tupla, and I am a trigender polysexual individual (which is funny to me, since polysexual means attracted to many but not all genders, and Chael is the gender I'm not attracted to). I have made it clear to Chael that although my purpose in creating him is not sex (far from it, mainly because I don't get much socialization from people, and because I hope he can help me cope with social anxiety), but I want our relationship to be so open that if he asked for something sexual in our relationship, I wouldn't immediately say no. But we've agreed that any advances will be made by him, and I will never ask him for anything.

[Guest MegaBusta]

But I still don't want Raid to feel any sexual feelings.

 

I do wish a that bit more of the people here would think like this. I've had my fill of batshit insane stories.

[Procron X]

 

It has never happened. Ever.

 

False. I've been raped by Caeden. It lead to our one and only fight.

 

I won't force you to believe me or anything but I swear it's true.

[Zer0.iNSaNiTY]

O.o Okai...

 

As for the poll, if primary tulpa you mean the one who bothers to talk to me most, that would be Muse who’s female, like me :3 I’m also straight, she’s asexual, dislikes anything remotely perverted, im not sure how she manages to live with menwithout going crazy XD My technically first tulpa would be Forseen, but he DOESNT BOTHER TO TALK TO ME CUS HE’S ON HIS VIDEO GAME ALL THE TIME. ... oh wait,he’s not here XD

 

|Uh-huh, yeah, I exist y’know.|

 

XD that’s Alix btw, she’s a girl, but is physically a boy. A.k.a., she has a penis :P Long story... actually, short story. She forms when Muse and Forseen merge, Forseen has a penis, Muse has nothing, so kinda defaultly she formed with a penis. *shrugs* Idk. Hasnt bothered to change it, plus she doesnt want to change it, soooo.... ye.

[Guest MegaBusta]

 

False. I've been raped by Caeden. It lead to our one and only fight.

 

I won't force you to believe me or anything but I swear it's true.

 

How. How does a tulpa rape someone? For what reasons were you not able to stop it?

[Procron X]

 

How. How does a tulpa rape someone? For what reasons were you not able to stop it?

 

Essentially, he flooded me with pleasure and and I didn't care to stop it at the time. He made me want it, to simplify it. Of course I was more a little upset with him afterwards.

 

Messing with desires isn't cool.

 

Now he understands only to do it when I comply.

[left blank]

Whoa, quite frankly.

 

This is why I do not, in any way, encourage the belief that a tulpa is a completely separate being to the host. It's not.

 

A tulpa is a handy go-between that can (and does) expose the darkest subcellar of your inner self, where you may encounter feelings, memories and experiences you might rather remain ignorant of.

 

So whenever sexuality surfaces, it's you. You cannot rape yourself, but you can commit self-harm by way of maladaptive beliefs and behaviours. The mentality responsible for believing otherwise should be taken very seriously, approached carefully, examined thoroughly, and dealt with mindfully.