Sexuality and Attraction to Tulpa

[Chupi]

First off, I fail to see how a straight girl pining for a straight man is in any way gay, even if either of them are tulpae. A tulpa is generally seen as a separate being, though existing in the same physical brain. They are not 'just part of you', even though you make them.

 

Also note that you will probably be feeling a lot of intense love toward her and from her, though there needn't be anything sexual about it. Love between tulpa and host is often a very pure, almost spiritual sort of love. For some it evolves into a romantic love. For others it does not. Regardless, nobody says you have to have sex with your tulpa. If she wants it and you don't, that's something to work out between yourselves. The option to say no is ultimately your decision, just like in real life.

 

One mostly* does not just turn gay, especially not from having imaginary sex with someone of the opposite gender. However, clop is essentially bestiality, although the ponies are cute cartoon caricatures that are really nothing like real ponies. Given that they speak and think like humans and therefore (especially pony tulpae) are more like humans who simply have a different visual form, I would class it as far different from actual bestiality.

 

* - It would appear that you becoming a girl in your head can affect your sexuality, like cruse said, though I haven't seen the full extent of it yet so I am not sure exactly how. Basically makes you transgender as far as I can tell. Which of course, is not at all what you're doing. You're creating a new being, not modifying your own form.

 

This brings me to another point, not exactly on the topic of the thread (so please don't let this turn into a derail) but I feed obligated to point it out. You seem to be seeing sexuality in black and white, either gay or straight. To avoid writing too much about it here, I'll just link to this post on my blog. (If you want to reply to what I wrote there, please PM it to me, or make a thread in Off-Topic linking to it if you want a discussion with more people.)

[Aarix]

For the love of all control yourself! First off your tulpa will be fine, talk to her about it 1-1.

You're sexuality and hers are her own, I hope down the road more people truly understand a tulpa/host bond and how it pales in comparison to ANY relationship any one can have with another human.

 

You'll be ok just come up with a compromise with your tulpa!

 

Man, the tweets I get in my feed

 

[Lacquer]

a tulpa/host bond and how it pales in comparison to ANY relationship any one can have with another human.

 

I think you meant the other way around.

[Tru_Blu]

I am a brony, and my tulpa is a pony. I am also, ashameably, a Clopper.

 

I am currently a straight male, and I wish to stay that way for many reasons, my faith included. However, if I make a female tulpa who is attracted to males, would that at all put my sexuality at risk? This does mean that part of me would run gay.

 

You're entitled to your own beliefs and I'm not at all trying to attack you for having them.

 

That being said, I wish you the very best in your quest to only be attracted to female cartoon ponies and to keep your heart free from impropriety and sin.

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Just a reminder: Engaging in sexual intercourse with a so-called 'tulpa' is nothing more than an involved, and contrived, form of masturbation. It's no more or less shameful than any other self-pleasuring technique. Plus, it's an effective safeguard against pregnancy, venereal disease and horribly awkward moments.

 

In short, you're mind-fucking yourself, and that's alright.

[cruse]

When you put it that way... It sounds really bad...

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Yeah, well.

[NekoiNemo]

Why do you only think about physical part of the process? That makes both of us sad. （￣△￣）

[cruse]

how do you describe the mental, romantic part then?

 

Edit: someone kill the phantom page.

[NekoiNemo]

Well... That's tricky.

It's kind of like with real thing, but maybe even stronger. Like a catch ball game, but with emotions instead of ball.

Warmth, security, longing... Emotions like this. Kind of funny feeling （＾◇＾）

 

What a clumsy description... Sorry.