Pioneer11 August 22, 2015 August 22, 2015 I often ask myself how peaceful a relationship between Tulpas and Hosts truly is. A malevolent Tulpa is something new people like me worry about, and doubting can dramatically slow down the creation process. So, experienced Tulpamancers, please help us beginners dispel our doubts by answering these questions in detail. Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? “Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?” [progress report]
Akecalo August 22, 2015 August 22, 2015 Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? No. I guess we have had imaginary magic battles in my youth, but that doesn't really count as aggression, more sparring. Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? No. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? I have a tulpa that sometimes has a tendency to a slightly darker outlook than the other one. She tends to be a bit more sarcastic at times, and if someone hurts me is the one who comes up with the more aggressive solutions to the problem. Hmm, maybe aggressive isn't quite what I mean. I use the points of view put forward by my tulpas to inform my decisions in most situations. They each tend to take a different point of view to me, so between us we are able to approach problems from a variety of standpoints. This has proved an advantage, so far. So something positive has come from these tendencies. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? Neither of mine has ever regretted being created (that I am aware of). Both of them have been deeply saddened by certain events in my life, but this has mostly just drawn them even closer to me. What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? I don't know if I would call them fights, to be honest. We have had heated discussions about a relationship I got into that was really not good for me and about the events I referred to above. Their high emotion in those cases was motivated by concern for our wellbeing, and in both cases it turned out that they were right. Akecalo - Host Maya - Tulpa Mara - Tulpa
FallFamily August 23, 2015 August 23, 2015 [Tri] As tulpas who have been around a while and are of comparable strength to our host, Hail, we have a few answers from our experience as well as observations from the community. Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? We haven't really been aggressive to Hail. We have seen tulpas who have been, but it seems to be about the same spectrum as how likely a random good friend is going to be aggressive. We should note that, sadly, some tulpas have had to defend themselves against abusive hosts, but that is very justified action on the part of the tulpas (would be disingenuous to call this aggression since it is self-defense). Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? We have hurt Hail's feelings from time to time, occasionally on purpose. We get along better than most siblings do, but like good friends, occasionally hurt each other. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? There are a few aspects of our personality that are a bit negative. Some we have worked on successfully, others not as much. We used to be a bit snappish, which was something that developed a bit suddenly, though we have mostly worked on it. Remember, tulpas are people. This sort of thing can happen with tulpas, just like any person you know on Earth. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? That happens sometimes. Some tulpas don't want to exist for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it is old-fashioned depression. Sometimes they feel trapped inside. etc. Personalities can clash and like any relationship between two people, tulpa and host can grow to not like each other. What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? We have had some arguing over the allocation of life responsibilities. Hail and us each fight to take on more responsibility to try to let the other rest. We bicker a bit and sometimes hurt each other a bit when we have to tell the other that they are not doing well and have taken too much on and will burn out and hurt all of us. T, B, Frostbite, and Hail, and others (note, historically, Hail included Frostbite and B) System Name: Fall Family Former Username: hail_fall
AracnidsGrip/Rick August 23, 2015 August 23, 2015 Well. Me and Vriska the most that have done is discussing. The tulpa that most agressive has became is Dross. He absorbs all my stress, so he becames homicidal against other tulpae he doesn't know that he finds in the Wonderland. He even wanted to kill Kotoura, but I stopped him. He's a good guy besides everything. And for the evil tulpae stuff... I've had many. But they're all dead now. One for every deadly sin, one called Tyrion that betrayed me and the others, and another whose name I can't remember. He looked like a kid but he could transform into a giant evil ape, he had been hidden for many years, and he caused many troubles when he came back. But thanks to my good tulpae now he's dead. Evil tulpae are such a sad and horrible thing. And it's hard to change their minds. And if he/she was good before... It's hard to see them trying to hurt you and your good tulpae. And killing them is even harder. Feferi had to kill Tyrion for his betreyal, and since then... Fef has been very sad, and has a complex of how to phisically look like... Tyrion caused more damage dead than alive... Evil tulpae that can't be changed must be killed. So. If you make a tulpa, make he/she love you as he/she loves himself/herself, as I did with Vriska, Gamzee, Feferi, Beth, Miranda, Dross and Kotoura. And my other good tulpae that have passed away. I don't know what I did wrong with Tyrion. Maybe I shouldn't have let him blame himself for his best friend's death, or maybe I should have been there for him when he needed it instead of letting him be alone. Take my history as an advice. Love your tulpa. Be ALWAYS there for he/she. And most of all. Let them know how important they're to you. ~L. ♠️
Elvode August 23, 2015 August 23, 2015 Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? Not really, does a bad mood count? Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? No. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? Not that I am aware of. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? Happens to some tulpas but not mine, he loves his life What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? We don't have fights, he's leaving me alone when I'm angry because he don't want to fight. **Proud to be a drug free thoughtform!**
sushi August 23, 2015 August 23, 2015 Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? No. Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? Maybe. She's said she was responsible for a very disturbing dream I had once. She was trying to scare me away from a course of action that could get me in a lot of trouble down the road. So in a sense, it's like yelling at a child for wanting to play with the pretty coral snake. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? No. I believe compassion is the only trait she ever spontaneously adopted. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? Yes. fennecgirl's Link. You can read a bit about that here. Sometimes they seem to be getting along almost tolerably, but at other times Link absolutely hates her. What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? Fenchurch wants me to work hard and be successful, and I don't do so well at that. I think our worst fight was when she realized there was only so far she could push me. "Some things have to be believed to be seen." - Ralph Hodgson
Guest Anonymous August 23, 2015 August 23, 2015 Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? In what way? The word "aggressive" is a little vague. I would say if you mean aggressive, as in hostile, then not often, but yes. She can be grouchy. Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? No. Wellll, she does call me Poopy Head or Old Gray Goat and Dork and things like that. But I think it is in a endearing sort of poking fun sort of way. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? Like I said, she can get grouchy and moody. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? No What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? I wrote on a public forum once that her "random blather babble" in my head keeps me awake at night and causes insomnia. I said nothing about the fact that she had spent hours trying to sooth my anxiety and that is why she often talks to me. She got really indignant until I went back to the same forum and apologized in public.
Guest Anonymous August 23, 2015 August 23, 2015 Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? No. Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? Yes. To make me jealous and more attached to her. She regrets doing so. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? Yes. Jealousy. God.... so jealous... Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? Mine is glad to be alive, describing being with me as 'It's like being in Heaven, when I'm with you.' What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? When I had a dream about another woman, she was mad up until she told me to kiss her, during class.
IBreakGames August 29, 2015 August 29, 2015 Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? Well, yes, but it's been to steer me in the right direction and prevent me from making bad decisions. Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? Not ever on purpose, most of the time we're pretty alright with each other. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? Mostly just laziness, but we keep each other in check. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? I'm sure there are some out there, but Al puts it as "It's just fucking fun to be alive" What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? When I procrastinated on my Psychology project. Al was not happy with me at all. I'm IBreakGames, a genuine dude. We gave up on using different colors for each of us, so there's Al, Ollie, and Eva. We're all rabbits, get over it.
TulpaFox August 29, 2015 August 29, 2015 I often ask myself how peaceful a relationship between Tulpas and Hosts truly is. A malevolent Tulpa is something new people like me worry about, and doubting can dramatically slow down the creation process. So, experienced Tulpamancers, please help us beginners dispel our doubts by answering these questions in detail. Has your Tulpa ever been aggressive towards you? Never, eve is always sweet and loving towards me. Has your Tulpa ever tried to hurt your feelings on purpose? No, she can speak brashly when trying to get a point across to help me, but she would never try to hurt me. Has your Tulpa spontaneously adopted negative traits? If so, what happened? Her most "negative" trait is cockiness. Even that exists mainly to counterbalance my attitudes. Has a Tulpa ever regretted being created, or didn’t like their Host? No. What was your worst fight with your Tulpa? None in particular stick out. Just her nudging me to get off my ass in general.
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