Nobillis June 19, 2016 June 19, 2016 I chose to marry a tulpa from a different 'system' (not this body). That seemed the more sensible thing to do, for me personally. My spouse is a lot older then me, but with tollreance and loyalty we make it work. I would think it's a good idea to wait until you are mature before launching any relationship with someone. When you are new, emotions are overpowering and can be quite confusing. So, best to wait when you are a tulpa - was my thought. Please consider supporting Tulpa.info.
Tulpa102 July 3, 2016 July 3, 2016 Is creating a Tulpa just for a romantic relationship unethical? I have just started creating my Tulipa and I was wondering if creating it with the end goal of a romantic relationship would be hurtful to them.
Vos July 3, 2016 July 3, 2016 Is creating a Tulpa just for a romantic relationship unethical? I have just started creating my Tulipa and I was wondering if creating it with the end goal of a romantic relationship would be hurtful to them. Even if you create a tulpa for that specific purpose, there's no guarantee that they'll go through with it. If that's your sole reason for getting into this, you're potentially setting yourself up for disappointment, and I'd recommend thinking about things before you jump in at all. I think it's unethical for someone to create a tulpa for romantic/sexual reasons, yeah, but no-one can stop you from doing it.
Guest Anonymous July 3, 2016 July 3, 2016 What about deviation? Let's suppose you create a tulpa for romantic purposes, say a pretty girl. Then the tulpa deviates and becomes an old hag? Not saying that will happen but seems like a lot of work to go through just for a girl friend who might not even dig you in the end or that you might not find so alluring after all.
ArchdiAngelo July 4, 2016 July 4, 2016 One of my tulpas, Lily, and I found ourselves falling for each other a few weeks ago, and I have yet to even consider regretting it. Our dynamic hasn't even really changed all that much in terms of how we interact most of the time, in fact one of the only things that's changed is the fact that we say "I love you" pretty frequently. And she's pretty chill, and knows that I'm eventually going to also want a physical girlfriend, but we both know that even when I get one, I'm never gonna give her up anyway, so we're fine with it. It helps that she's a succubus and falls pretty firmly into the "Ethical Slut" trope (here's a link http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/EthicalSlut I'm sorry in advance for trapping you within the eternal labyrinth that is tvtropes) so she doesn't mind at all about having to share. As for sex, I'm waiting for us to get better at interacting, and preferably for us to get better at imposition, before we do anything. We did once do it in the wonderland, and that was pretty cool, but I feel like it'll be more meaningful with imposition. So, honestly, as long as both parties are chill about everything, I say go for it! Rule number one: Relax. You can't get burned if you just stay chill~ Host: Arch di Angelo, artist and casual dude Tulpae: Lilith, sexy succubus with a heart of gold, first tulpa (Current stage: Imposition) Shade, smug and snarky demon, also with a heart of gold (probably), second tulpa (Current stage: Imposition) Cain, gentleman vampire, third tulpa (Current stage: Imposition)
JackPot August 10, 2016 August 10, 2016 My tulpa is my wife Yes bro, ur tulpa is ur wife, I swear I rate ya, we are in the same boat on this one, tell me if u wanna talk sometime about relationship with our loved ones, Im very interested as I havent really talked properly to anyone who is in to tulpamancing,
ShiningMoon August 11, 2016 August 11, 2016 I'm actually the opposite of most situations, my tulpa actually wanted to be romantic with me first instead of the other way round. I definitely wasn't expecting that.
springcat March 8, 2017 Author March 8, 2017 Thank you all for the answers! Even tho it's been almost a year :D Me and my tulpa have been almost 10 months together and we are really happy. So I'm very grateful for the messages! <3
Tewi March 8, 2017 March 8, 2017 That's good to hear. Nice when people don't just leave forever. Hi, I'm Tewi, one of Luminesce's tulpas. I often switch to take care of things for the others. All I want is a simple, peaceful life. With my family. Our Ask thread: https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas
springcat March 8, 2017 Author March 8, 2017 That's good to hear. Nice when people don't just leave forever. Thanks, and yep it is :) I chose to marry a tulpa from a different 'system' (not this body). That seemed the more sensible thing to do, for me personally. My spouse is a lot older then me, but with tollreance and loyalty we make it work. I would think it's a good idea to wait until you are mature before launching any relationship with someone. When you are new, emotions are overpowering and can be quite confusing. So, best to wait when you are a tulpa - was my thought. Wow :D my friend is also in a relationship with a tulpa from a different body :) and yes we did wait and think for a while, then we just went for it and everything has worked out great :) So long as the host and tulpa have no reservations, I say go for it. I think tulpas are no different from other people. They are deserving of the love and happiness we crave and yearn to share with others. Out of everyone I know, my tulpa is the most important and cherished. We are a part of each other, and I want to remain by her side in this life and the here-after. I am blessed to have found her. No matter what you choose to do, I am sure a tulpa will bring good tidings to your life. Best wishes. That's exactly what I think about them too :) I'm glad to hear that :3 Thanks :)
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.