I have two questions for you ?

[suhail Al ketbi]

First :

Do you really contact your tulpa ( in real time zone) ??( face to face )

And I don't mean ( dreams, lucid dreams , obe)

 

Second:

Do you feel that you don't miss people alot ?

I mean you still go and visit them and stay around them .. but not that you feel hurt .

[tulpa001]

Um your first question is confusing. I think you have been around long enough to know that there are many ways a tulpa can be contacted, with varying levels of physical verisimilitude. Almost all tulpas can speak to their hosts verbally, and many achieve imposition, possession and immersive daydreaming. I actually think dreams have the major problem of both parties being not themselves.

 

The second one, personally, I rarely feel like I miss someone.

[suhail Al ketbi]

 

Thank you for this answer.

[Luminesce]

I exclusively interact with my tulpas in realtime. I wish I could interact with them in dreams, because I think the experience would be much more vivid, but that would only be complementary to interacting with them in real life.

 

I never missed people really, I personally (and this isn't representative of most tulpamancers) don't have many strong emotions or attachment to things outside of myself. But, my tulpas are within myself, and I care for them immensely. I couldn't live without any of them.

[Solune]

I'll just answer the second question:

Sometimes, yes.

We believe all are one, but we also recognize that the illusion of separation is very powerful... and it gets us down sometimes.

Well, mostly it gets ME down. The others seem to cope with it better.

Sol says it is because fronting creates expectations and expectations reinforce the illusion. Since I am the primary fronter it effects me more.

[Vos]

Most people contact their tulpa face to face, yes, and even in the same (real) time zone.

No, none of us seem to miss people all that often.

[Kaga and Company]

Asking if we "miss people" almost makes it sound like you're assuming that our tulpas replace the people in our lives. I for one have never felt this way.

[Aurora]

1. My host talks to me face to face.

 

2. From our experience, making a tulpa doesn't significantly change how much you miss people, especially after the novelty wears off. My host is an introvert and never really missed people, I'm an extrovert and I often miss my friends.

[wojteko65]

I rarely talk to my tulpas face to face. I don't have much time. Even if I have time more comfortable is just talking to tulpas.

I don't miss people. Tulpas aren't replacement to real people.