Location of Tulpa is Unclear to Me

[sirnubbins]

Hello everyone, thought I'd say hello this being my first time posting and all. I just have a quick question. I have been working on my tulpa for the last 4 days, but one thing is still a little confusing to me. I promise I used the search function, so sorry if I still failed to find it on my own. While I am narrating during the day, I'm not really sure where I'm suppose to be directing the speech. I've just been kind of visualizing her face when I am speaking, but I'm not sure if this is right. Should I be thinking of her as being right beside me throughout the day and seeing what I see, or is this too much like imposition?

 

Sorry for the WoT, just looking for a little help.

[NeonKnights]

Hey, also a newbie, but welcome aboard!

 

I'm only a week in myself, but I've found personally that setting a chair aside for my tulpa has helped me feel out her presence when I talk to her at home. I feel a little like Clint Eastwood when I do it, but it works.

When I'm out and about, it's a little trickier, but I suppose in that case I just think thoughts while focusing on her, in effect directing those thoughts to her.

Of course, any way you narrate is correct as long as you're thinking of your tulpa while you speak or think. It gets easier with a little bit of practice at it.

 

Thinking about her being by your side is simply non-visual presence imposition, which is perfectly fine, even beneficial.

[QB2]

It can never be "too much like" something, your steps don't need compartmentalization.

Anything that has you thinking "I am talking to the tulpa" works.

[Aarix]

Just talk with the idea of you're talking to your Tulpa. If your speech is directed with that in mind. Than you're talking to your Tulpa. Congrats

[sirnubbins]

Thanks a lot, all of you. Pretty excited to be on this journey and I'm sure I'll have many more questions but it's good to know that my tulpa and I have some good people to turn to for advice.

[Daron Malakian]

It's a bit shame for me,but how do i know if my tulpa is where i think he is?

For example,i can visualize that he is in my bed but if he is in another place?

[Linkzelda]

You may want to check this out: http://community.tulpa.info/search.php?action=results&sid=1c2d13974f07d0cd839698abc81b8b5b&sortby=lastpost&order=desc

 

In short, he's within the confines of your mind. Don't worry, keep focusing and practicing your visualization and other tulpa-related skills.

[Daron Malakian]

You may want to check this out: http://community.tulpa.info/search.php?action=results&sid=1c2d13974f07d0cd839698abc81b8b5b&sortby=lastpost&order=desc

 

Yeah,sorry for that,it's a bit hard to search here,i was trying to see if there was any other post like this

[Chupi]

What you need in particular is visualizing what's there and letting what you see form on its own, rather than consciously creating everything in your mindsight. For this to work, I would say you need two things: decently clear visualization, and to let go of your control so you can just watch it form.

[Yori]

If you are at the stage of clear responding, maybe you could ask your tulpa to show for you.