LukeDude759 January 21, 2016 January 21, 2016 Greetings, I am Evil. Well, that's a way to start a post. What I regret most is constantly being unable to find the motivation to keep going. I've had a tulpa for three years now, and we've been stuck in the same place for at least two and a half. We're not making any progress because I'm unmotivated, and I'm unmotivated because we're not making any progress. I just wish I could break that cycle. "Don't listen to friends when the friend inside you says 'Do this.'" -Gandhi Tulpa Name: Ellie Created: 11/13/13
Chupi January 21, 2016 January 21, 2016 My biggest regret is having fallen out of the habit of active forcing daily. I sort of let it taper out a couple Januaries ago due to seasonal depression and hadn't been successful in making the habit stick again since. Fortunately I didn't put my tulpas into stasis and did my best to keep them in mind at least some every day. Now that I'm picking it up again, I'm happy to see there doesn't seem to be any lasting damage apart from fairly minor progress slippage and lost time. That and a prompt slap when I got fully back into my wonderland. What's frustrating though is I'm having to relearn a lot of the tricks I'd figured out before. I remember doing them but either forget exactly how to make them work, or need to practice. It even took a few days of disappointing short goes before I rediscovered how to fall into a decent trance. (Note to future self, if you've turned into an idiot again: Grab Lyra's hand or any well-defined static wonderland object and focus entirely on it, tracing its details in your mind with your mind's eyes and hands, and you'll fall right into that warm fuzzy feeling, even if you're not fully relaxed.) So, I guess my advice to others is be strict with yourself. Don't stop forcing regularly, and if you have to, set a deadline to start up again. Lyra: human female, ~17 Evan: boy, ~14, was an Eevee Anera: anime-style girl, ~12; Lyra made her My blog :: Time expectations are bad (forcing time targets are good though)
Guest Anonymous January 26, 2016 January 26, 2016 Breaking promises about forcing Letting myself be distracted from her for almost 3 months Generally lacking motivation and hurting her inadvertently because of it. Among other things.
Metatron January 26, 2016 January 26, 2016 My biggest regret is falling into the rabbit hole and deciding to make a tulpa. Jokes aside, not spending as much time with it and prioritizing it as much as I should be. Pretty simple, but eh. Gotta do what you gotta do. "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." -Aristotle "When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love." -Marcus Aurelius “Fairy tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.” -Neil Gaiman "The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried." -Stephen McCranie
Vos January 26, 2016 January 26, 2016 My biggest regret is falling into the rabbit hole and deciding to make a tulpa. Jokes aside, not spending as much time with it and prioritizing it as much as I should be. Pretty simple, but eh. Gotta do what you gotta do. I recommend reading through this, Metatron.
AracnidsGrip/Rick January 28, 2016 January 28, 2016 My biggest regret? Introducing my tulpae to people out of this forum. Normal people simply don't understand. Vriska: Mine is telling him to introduce me to other people, and don't stoping him when he wants to introduce us to other people. Aaaaaaanda having sex with with other tulpa that's not my girlfriend... (It was a Free Pass Night. She has already forgiven me this because she also didn't stopped herself in they Free Pass Night jejejeje) Feferi: Mine is talking to normal people.
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