A better way of contacting Rina when she's away

[J.Iscariot]

... I honestly have no idea what you're even going on about.

You're completely off-topic, that's the only thing I can tell.

I said completely clearly that she doesn't go inactive, but that her doing the described thing is simply what she does when one or both of us want(s) some alone time.

(Meaning, she isn't "inactive" during that time, but very much still conscious.)

 

Alright. I apologize for my misconception, then.

 

No one said anything else' date=' least of all me... seriously, what are you even going on about?[/quote']

 

https://community.tulpa.info/thread-general-understanding-your-tulpa-a-healthy-relationship

 

"Hey, I'll be gone for a bit, aight?"

 

There you go.

 

Not how it works for us, not what's happening, and no one, least of all me, implied that it does / is.

Again, what are you going on about?

 

I was just giving my point of view over things. No shit that it's not what is actually happening, it was metaphorical more than anything.

 

... yet again' date=' what are you even talking about[/quote']

 

What, do you have problems reading or with comprehension of simple english? Do you need me to draw you a painting about what I actually meant or was it too hard for your mind to comprehend that? Seriously how hard was it to understand the words I said?

 

 

Way to be disrespectful because of your dislike to what I said in my post. If you seek respect, learn how to respect people online. Saying 'wat o.o' is no way to act respectful, it only demonstrates your lack of comprehension in a rude way with a passivity nobody can really see aside from the person you're targeting. There is some relevant stuff in my post that you should keep in mind, but a part of you is just out there to get me with me because of how I treated you in the past, which should hold no account over what I said in this thread, and I feel more disgust than anything towards being treated like that because of your bias. You're clearly not willing to listen to anyone else telling you to get a messenger or servitor. If you're going to act like a rock, don't act like a stupid one and don't act as if you're all 'wut xD o.o O.O', that shit just doesn't work and you're just dodging literally everything that puts you in an unfavorable situation. Especially when you refuse to answer the PM I had sent you with an answer to all of your faulty and biased implications.

 

With that being put aside, I personally think that while I am not apt to call what you are and are not going through, it's very far from the picture you want to give. 'Your tulpa won't die from being alone for a few hours or so, and your host won't start feeling awful if you're not there for a while.' is what you specifically said a long while ago, and the image you gave in this thread was that you'd isolate yourself for a while, Esterina would go do whateversheactuallydoes (Tulpas don't even dream, most tulpas don't actually dream for reference, I mean, tulpas that have been on this site), and that you would face difficulties contacting her back again. My entire post (that you couldn't comprehend... because it was too hard to understand? what?) was built on the fact that sometimes, some rest WAS needed and that if something was hard on you, perhaps you should avoid doing that thing as I coupled my post with some facts as to why rest is needed. But nope, it's hard not to take every single thing personally on this forum. I obviously didn't approach this in a way that it would actually 'fix' your problem, nobody's telling you about the dangers it can actually have or anything of the type, the thinking pattern here was so linear that it had pushed me (me, someone with as much a stupid pattern) to say other things. It's obvious that I don't go on threads and act all friendly and tell people what they want to hear. YOU HAVE WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR, I'M ADVANCING OTHER THINGS RELATED TO THE MATTER THAT MAKE SENSE AND COULD HAVE AN IMPACT ON WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. Why should I tell you what everybody else already said? Why should I bother with saying things that will merely make it all look as whoring my postcount with an easy piece of advice. People gave you good tips to reach Esterina and I was merely exposing a point of view as to why you should not. That is my opinion, you're free to negate it, ignore it, defy it and have an actual conversation... but it's literally an insult to always say 'wat o.o O.O o.O' and act dumb to everything that is said that you dislike.

 

 

I'm not taking part in this furthermore. If you're not willing to open your eyes over what's super obvious... nobody can really help you. Enjoy texting or sending pigeons or that kind of shit.

[Luminesce]

Decent points but unwarranted as always. Still assuming so much about people and their tulpas, and bad things at that. You've got a lot of good advice but you're giving it to people like they're being reprimanded for doing something wrong, and they don't deserve it. There's a difference in covering the "worst-case scenarios" with a negative view and just being irrationally hostile. Really, most people don't experience the things you guys have. The advice you've learned to give from your experience isn't bad or wrong, but it really applies to yourselves much more than others, and you're overestimating how important it is to them because of how important it is to you.

 

Anyways, still a just cause as always, but you don't seem capable of striking a balance here.

[Guest Anonymous]

And now it got funny.

... what. At some point one just has to say it openly, I've tried the polite approach long enough.

If you feel like taking what I say, no matter how minute and harmless, and then warping and twisting it into something entirely different and, this being the point right here, >>unrelated<<, in order to create drama around my person, then feel free to do so...

... but we're both really past the point of hiding our amusement for politeness' sake, seriously.

We did so for long enough, I feel.

 

 

Greets,

AG

[IBreakGames]

 

I was just giving my point of view over things. No shit that it's not what is actually happening, it was metaphorical more than anything....

 

It's obvious that I don't go on threads and act all friendly and tell people what they want to hear. YOU HAVE WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR, I'M ADVANCING OTHER THINGS RELATED TO THE MATTER THAT MAKE SENSE AND COULD HAVE AN IMPACT ON WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. Why should I tell you what everybody else already said? Why should I bother with saying things that will merely make it all look as whoring my postcount with an easy piece of advice. People gave you good tips to reach Esterina and I was merely exposing a point of view as to why you should not. That is my opinion

 

I'd hardly say you're advancing things, it just feels like you're going off on a tangent. While you're right that it isn't necessarily good to be around someone 24/7, that's not what this is about. This is about finding an easier method to contact Esterina when she is away, not making her come back and stay. If you wanted to take things in a different direction, then maybe you should have just said that from the beginning rather than presuming that others would hop on your train. Regardless of what your intentions are, your posts frequently come off as being extremely rude. There's no need to be attacking somebody else. But the same goes towards AG as well, the two of you have been bickering for the last few days especially, so guys, plz stahp. And as for his confusion, yeah, the tail end of your main post really just seemed like rambling.

 

I don't understand your situation entirely because I feel like, one way, it's detrimental to willingly bar out a tulpa from its emotions and cognition, and the other way, I don't actually know what Esterina is doing. Even you seemed uncertain as to what term to use to define her situation.

 

There is one solution but that would be very detrimental to your mental health. A solution that would accomplish everything you could possibly want to alleviate from your situation's hardship. Something that could make Esterina come back at any time, literally any time, and even get you beyond.

 

But man is not ready for this.

 

Nobody is barring anybody's emotions, he's stating that Esterina doesn't feel HIS emotions when she's away. I could understand maybe a misinterpretation there, but either way barring of emotions was never mentioned, and in your post it felt like you mentioned this as though it was being discussed already.

 

The last half of what I quoted is what really threw me. Genuinely, would you mind elaborating on what you meant by "man is not ready for this"? Ready for what? You make it sound like you're some mad scientist who discovered the next revolution in warfare, but you're holding it back because it could destroy the entire planet if used improperly. I'm just as clueless as AG, to me it just sounds like word salad.

 

Keep in mind though, I don't really disagree with some of your other points, I just don't see how they fully relate to the topic at hand. (Though I'm just as guilty for being off topic as well, I won't exclude myself from this.)

[LaceyJoshua]

On another note: OP, has anything else anyone said given you any good ideas on how to go about contacting your tulpa?

[Guest Anonymous]

On another note: OP, has anything else anyone said given you any good ideas on how to go about contacting your tulpa?

 

I think I will look into creating a servitor. That seems like the most reliable and effective solution.

[Guest Anonymous]

OH Hi Rina, Felix is trying to get in touch with you sweetie. Just passing it on.

[YourCatBeany]

We use a calling term that we both keep a listen for when we're away from each other. It's just a matter of deciding what it would be, probably preferably something weird or out of place in everyday conversation.

We've found it to be useful for calling her into my dreams when I realize I'm dreaming too.

Our term? "Tactical hotdog". No idea why, or how it ended up, but it never fails to catch the others' attention.

Might be worth a try.

 

 

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