I have a question about my tulpa???

[Raito123]

I have been working on Raito for quite some time, though most of our work has been passive forcing.

 

Raito is pretty energetic and happy and outgoing, but only when I'm talking to him. I hear of people getting interrupted to distracted by their tulpae at times, but Raito never approaches me when we're not forcing (even when I'm not busy). He never does anything when I'm gone, not even in the wonderland.

 

I was wondering if anyone knows if there's a reason for that or if he's just under developed?

[Bacn]

Plenty of other hosts as well as myself have had this exact same issue and it frequently comes bundled with a feeling/fear that is some times dubbed 'unconscious parroting'.

 

As far as I'm aware there is no known cure for it, but it is at least plausible that it is a simple sign of young age for a tulpa. I've been looking to try and find some one who has gotten through this problem, but no luck so far on that front.

[LukeDude759]

I'm in the process of getting through this problem, but hell if I know exactly how I'm doing it. I guess I just decided to stop worrying about things and just go with whatever happens.

[Guest Anonymous]

As far as I'm aware there is no known cure for it, but it is at least plausible that it is a simple sign of young age for a tulpa. I've been looking to try and find some one who has gotten through this problem, but no luck so far on that front.

 

Sounds like a lack of independence. Independence is something that's hard to work on -- usually it just comes with time. Pretty much every host will tell you their tulpa is independent and in six months they'll look back and realize their tulpa's personality isn't half as deep as it is now.

 

LukeDude759 seems like he's on the right track. Time should fix this.

[chaoticpix93]

I've actually been in this boat for a few days, m'self, but I've only just now passed the 2 weeks point. I figure, it'll just take time, and that's what we got enough of.

 

You'll notice though, small things. Like, I can tell when she's awake before me because my head is full of chatter before I even wake up. Or she'll stick her head in my face like GOOD MORNING. Just gotta look for them.

[Bacn]

 

Sounds like a lack of independence. Independence is something that's hard to work on -- usually it just comes with time. Pretty much every host will tell you their tulpa is independent and in six months they'll look back and realize their tulpa's personality isn't half as deep as it is now.

 

LukeDude759 seems like he's on the right track. Time should fix this.

 

It certainly does sound like it's a lack of independence that works itself out with time, but I just want confirmation. I've been dealing with the issue for almost a year and it feels like this issue should have been ironed out by now. At this point I just want to be able to say that time has fixed it for other people and so it could possibly work for me and anyone else who asks.

[The-Syreth-Clan]

I'm having the same problem right now, though Martina usually gives me a head pressure from time to time, so I think it's curing itself the more you care about your tulpa.

[NeonKnights]

 

It certainly does sound like it's a lack of independence that works itself out with time, but I just want confirmation. I've been dealing with the issue for almost a year and it feels like this issue should have been ironed out by now. At this point I just want to be able to say that time has fixed it for other people and so it could possibly work for me and anyone else who asks.

 

I'm just getting out of this phase, myself. Lately when I ask her what she's been up to she'll tell me all about her activities. At first it was just "drawing" and maybe her showing me something she drew, but in the last few days she's been doing a lot more. Namely, building a more permanent knowledge library in my mind and using it to research the mechanical workings of helicopters by utilizing my stored (though limited) knowledge of the subject.

This has all started kind of recently, I think around the time that I spent the entire day with her on her birthday back on the 3rd. Since that day, I've been spending substantially more time with her every day than I used to, which might be having an impact. Other than that, I haven't done anything in particular to get her to start acting more independently of me.

 

My guess is that some tulpas with dependency issues might just need time, intense focus, or both to overcome it.

 

I'm still not seeing my tulpa grab my attention when I'm not at least somewhat expecting her to, but it could be that she has the same problem I used to, being too shy to grab somebody's attention if they're busy with something else.

[Kaga and Company]

It could just be your tulpa's personality. Sunray, for example, is really shy - so she rarely speaks unless I or one of my other tulpas starts the conversation, unless she has something really important to say.

[Raito123]

It could just be your tulpa's personality. Sunray, for example, is really shy - so she rarely speaks unless I or one of my other tulpas starts the conversation, unless she has something really important to say.

 

I can see where you're coming from, but Raito isn't really that shy at all. In fact, him and my boyfriend have carried out a couple conversations on facebook before and he's initiated conversations with a couple of my other friend's tulpae. But I think this will go away with time, like others on this thread have been saying. Thanks, everyone!