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Hello community. I'm trying to create a server. I wrote his purpose on an A4 paper, along with the tasks, the appearance of my server, mantra, name and symbol. I can not make a statue for him. So, can I keep it on paper? And, do I have to do everything the server should do before, for him to learn or something?

 

Thanks in advance.

 

[Hail] Never known anyone to write these things down on paper during the planning phase, but it sounds like a useful idea for getting the plan for a servitor figured out. Nothing wrong with keeping the paper either.

 

What do you mean by "statue" when you said "I can not make a statue for him."?

 

In order to make the servitor, their tasks have to be something that is actually doable. It is hard to make them be able to do something that you could do if you put in the time but just haven't learned yet. It is a lot easier if you can already do them since then you can puppet the servitor to do them.

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[brute Force Method] Step 2. Puppet/Run Servitor Manually

First, how is this different from doing it yourself? How is servitor different from habit and skill?

Second, how do I know that I'm actually learning to automate things, rather than convincing myself that it's servitor doing it?

Third, is there some sort of feedback in this? How do you differentiate your reflectory actions from actions done by running servitor?

Fourth, are there any concrete step-by-step examples? I know that with tulpas experience can be subjective and different on case-to-case basis, but servitors seem to be relatively simple and discrete concepts that shouldn't deviate from person to person.

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[Tri] While we didn't make the servitors in this brain, we know enough about them that we can answer your questions (Ice or Frostbite, formerly known as Hail before they separated might be along in a few days).

 

First, how is this different from doing it yourself? How is servitor different from habit and skill?

 

At first, there is no difference, other than you are also additionally puppetting the servitor. If anything, it is more work at first. And in a certain sense, it isn't different from habit and skill. The basic scheme here is that you set up a dissociative barrier, making a new entity in the brain who has this as the habit and skill and does it. It is a spectrum between doing it yourself while puppetting them on your habit and skill and where they are a developed and separate entity that does the task instead of you with their habit and skill. At the end of the day, it is still habit and skill in the brain somewhere and doing the same work. Just, one is making a separate mental automaton to do it while you tune out or do something else (depending on how much mental bandwidth it needs for its task, you might not be able to do much else but watch).

 

Second, how do I know that I'm actually learning to automate things, rather than convincing myself that it's servitor doing it?

Third, is there some sort of feedback in this? How do you differentiate your reflectory actions from actions done by running servitor?

 

This is the same question that many hosts ask with respect to their tulpas - is this them or is this me doing it but convincing myself it is them. It is a sort of gradual thing. At first, yeah, it is you doing it. As the servitor develops, it is more and more the servitor doing it. It is a gradual thing, and sometimes it can be rather hard to tell.

 

Fourth, are there any concrete step-by-step examples? I know that with tulpas experience can be subjective and different on case-to-case basis, but servitors seem to be relatively simple and discrete concepts that shouldn't deviate from person to person.

 

Servitors are the same way as tulpas in this regard. Same goes for wonderlands too. Making thoughtforms is quite subjective and very different from one system to another or even people within the same system. And also, these two classes of methods (many individual methods within) aren't the only classes either. Shard-seeding and shard-feeding are not yet mentioned as techniques in this version (the original version included them but Hail dropped it by the next version plans on adding mention of them but not how to actually do them (they can be quite hazardous) some time soon).

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(╥﹏╥) If only i knew this before!!!!!

 

I making these (my wishlist of sorts ...)

1) HUD (Heads Up Display ) for imposing my Tulpa's crystal clear and get a iron man like info graphics when the mood sets in ◉‿◉

 

2)I am gonna make a servitor pen that uses my left hand to draw or write while i sleep , or when i task it to ....

etc etc possibilities are endless~

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... A servitor can't write while you sleep. Also, be aware that getting clear visuals for imposing a HUD is just as hard as getting clear visuals for imposing your tulpa - something a lot of people that can do imposition still struggle with, or had to work very hard for.

Hi, I'm Tewi, one of Luminesce's tulpas. I often switch to take care of things for the others.

All I want is a simple, peaceful life. With my family.

Our Ask thread: https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas

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A servator can do anything you can do, as in,you have to teach it what to do, but Body OS does the same thing, so, making a servitor is just symbolic in that way. Kind of like using a symbol to remember something.

 

An example to the contrary:

 

The alarm clock feature is pretty nuts though, I don't really why when I say, I want to wake up at 3am, and I go to bed, I wake up the next morning, snooze a little, think of my tulpas, then check the clock 3:00. I thought previously that I was checking the clock and just not remembering, but no, my body knows exactly when.

 

It has happened so frequently that I don't doubt it anymore, so by that logic, maybe it can do things we couldn't teach it.

 

I wouldn't begin to understand how we would make it do this though.

 

Anecdotal evedence of the contrary as well:

 

[Dashie] Another example, I simply asked Bear to go dormant and he did, we could claim a servator did it as easily as say the Body OS did it. All I know is, none of us did it, all I did was ask politely and it happened. Now he just can relax and boop, he's gone.

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Hmm Tewi let me dream a bit longer , until i resume that bitter practice again ಥ‿ಥ

 

And Bear the waking on time thing is actually is easy as we all do have our own internal clock how else do we function properly otherwise LoL,

The trick is to teaching mind how to recognise what external time means in relation to the internal clock ,

and almost everyone is trained in this aspect i guess since we all grew up while reading clocks .

 

Besides this I think by Definition a Servitor should be able to do almost any task which is either physicaly possible or holds to our own underlying mental rules or logical reasoning , i mean if it's logic structure is in stark opposition with your own beliefs or predictions , then before it could do much our own subconscious will automatically smash it down with its underlying logical incompatiblity .

So atleast the servitor must be capable of doing things. within in our own subconscious belief freedom boundaries .

Maybe even if it can't really do that stuff it will atleast generate an illusion of achieving that set goal?

I mean as stated towards the end of the guide how the writer messed with his memories , if i am recalling correctly , so it actually impossible to physically delete any memory , sure it can be overwritten , or hidden but even then its a interconnected web of trees we just cant

delete anything that easily , beacuse if the surrounding Associated logic structures don't change then the memory will juat get restored at daily maintenance ....

(man i my old ranting skills are acting up again LoL ?)

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That sounds cool actually. (That's a pretty tame rant BTW)

 

As a side note: We modify my memories in three ways:

 

1. Re-enact the memory, similar to re-writing a nightmare when you wake up

2. Bury the memory in good times using visualization, kind of put yourself in that place and do fun stuff with your tulpas

3. Dissociate yourself from the memory, like you weren't really you at the time, or you were just acting the part.

 

By doing this, I'm destroying triggers that might set me in a sour mood.

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      · "But my tulpa doesn't remember our time together in the last lucid dream!"
      You don't remember all of your dreams, so don't expect your tulpa to do so. Tell them what you did to refresh their memory, ask them another day for another dream, and you will definitely have some positive results.
       
      · "But, while in the lucid dream, my tulpa didn't remember anything from the past day!"
      More or less the same. Memory in dreams isn't always accessible, and your tulpa may not be always as lucid as you are. Just ask the same on later lucid dreams and eventually they'll remember everything without a problem. Again, try to ignore bad experiences and treasure the good ones.
       
      C.2 - I don't trust dreams!
       
      Yes, lucid dreams are not completely static. If you're looking for absolute perfection and total control in lucid dreams, you might be disappointed. Your tulpa will definitely deviate a lot in lucid dreams, so why bother even trying? Is going to be a mess to discern when your tulpa is in their "true" form and personality!
       
      Actually, it isn't difficult at all. Just as you can tell when "something's wrong" with a close friend or relative, you can know whether or not your tulpa is "acting weird" or not, quite easily. If their personality is off, you can convince them to "go back to normal" and that they're just being distracted by the dream. If form is off, don't worry too much about it unless you want to practice some in-dream visualization, as it will always deviate a little.
       
      [Note, tiny edits in posts for anonymization purposes, as requested by the OP -Chupi]
    • By Upper Class Twit
      First off yes I know, I am Upper Class Twit and it says this is by Aarix, well SHUT UP. I was talking. I was talking to Aarix on Skype a while back, and I mean a WHILE back and I mentioned this guide that he never put up here, and he basically said something along the lines of "You can do it." So this ENTIRE thing is by him, not me.
       
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      By Guest
      I stumbled across this site few month ago and started learning about tulpas and I have to ask why isn't the phenomenon more widely known about. I mean some of the things tulpas can do are truly amazing. Is it just hard to believe and thats why its not mainstream?
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