Developmental problems

[Noob123kdd]

I am a month or two into the development process and i am having difficulties with a few things

First of all, i can visualise her really well and already applied/applying traits on her for quite a while but when i visualise her, every movement feels like i am controlling her because when i do want her to move, she moves just as i imagine she would move, not freely. I know that some parroting can help greatly in the development process to get things going but when i do visualise her in front of me, every single movement made by her is parroted by me. Am i suppose to visualise her staying dead still?

Second of all, i know that it takes time for some people to get any response and i have full faith in my tulpa but i have not gotten ANY response from her, Not even a head pressure and i know that i need a different way to connect with her. I have heard of games like "i spy" or " would you rather", help a lot but these games are impossible to use when i don't get any response to the questions i pose. Of course i have tried and do narration during every passive and active forcing sessions which includes of me talking about myself, her and everything i can think of and when i run out of things to say, i ramble about pointless and stupid topics which bore me to death and i imagine her too.i don't know what else to do. Yes i have read numerous guide and tips on tulpa.info and even other questions asked on reddit but haven't found my breakthrough yet.

I know these types of question probably get posed a lot but i would REALLY appreciate it if this community can provide any type of suggestion or help. Thank you!

[Elvode]

I would say patience is important, even if you are far into the process it could take a lot longer time for her to act on her own, parroting isn't a bad thing, it may not feel good but it sure can be helpful in the start, continue parroting but always give her a chance to act on her own first and be patient, there is nothing wrong here, you will get there eventually, it sure is frustrating when you don't get any kind of response but frustration will only make it worse.

Don't feel bad if you don't get a response, when I asked a question and I got no response at all, I just answered anyway like "I agree" or "is that so." I never cared if I didn't get an answer cause eventually you will get it.

[Noob123kdd]

I would say patience is important, even if you are far into the process it could take a lot longer time for her to act on her own, parroting isn't a bad thing, it may not feel good but it sure can be helpful in the start, continue parroting but always give her a chance to act on her own first and be patient, there is nothing wrong here, you will get there eventually, it sure is frustrating when you don't get any kind of response but frustration will only make it worse.

Don't feel bad if you don't get a response, when I asked a question and I got no response at all, I just answered anyway like "I agree" or "is that so." I never cared if I didn't get an answer cause eventually you will get it.

 

This really did help, thank you :)

[Ashmo]

I used to forcing Bud to move for months before he could do it on his own. We even made a game out of it. As he gained more control, I would still parrot him while he tried to resist what I did. It proved to be very effective for us. Independent movement, just like with independent thought, comes with time.

 

It all really takes time. And the process is so subjective it's really hard to say what you should or shouldn't be expecting by a certain amount of time. And keep in mind that not all hosts experience things the same way other hosts do, because it's so subjective.

 

I had never really gotten head pressure until a couple months ago, and Bud is almost two years old now. It took almost a year for him to be what I consider fully vocal, even though I considered him sentient before that point.

 

I hate to just be another person to say, "don't give up! You're doing great," but that's pretty much it in a nutshell. You're doing everything right, it's just going to take time.