Tulpa romance vs overall romance.

[Guest Anonymous]

Melian is a nag. She nags me. Does that count?

[NoneFromHell]

Melian is a nag. She nags me. Does that count?

 

And she is going to do so until you die. So i would say it counts :D

[Guest Anonymous]

Damn. Right now I am ten pounds over my ideal weight. That's bad, that induces nagging about eating too much.

[warriortiltheend]

Well... I've experienced both. I don't think there's much I could say that has not already been said.

 

I wouldn't surrender my real-life relationship for a tulpa. It's too important to me. I haven't ever told my partner about my tulpas, though I'm sure she would be open minded about it. Maybe I will at some point, but I'd have to casually introduce the idea at first.

 

There are a few differences, the most notable difference being the loss of physical contact (unless you practice imposition and you git gud.) There's also the ability to speak through emotions, also known as Tulpish, which you can't do with other humans. There's that sense of understanding with a tulpa you can't get through another human. I think that's what makes tulparomance so desirable to some people.

 

I think it's okay. The relationships I've experienced taught me a lot about myself. I wouldn't choose to love a tulpa if I could help it, but how much choice do I have, really? (Probably more than I give myself credit for.)

[Guest Anonymous]

Melian is a nag. She nags me. Does that count?

 

Nah. More like buddies.

 

Now mine loves me and can sometimes never shut up about how I'm doing everything wrong (well, for the most part, she's right).

[Guest Anonymous]

 

Nah. More like buddies.

 

Now mine loves me and can sometimes never shut up about how I'm doing everything wrong (well, for the most part, she's right).

 

Hmmm, well that is one way to view nagging. LOL

[Yuki]

Dutch talking here wow. I'm dating the little girl in my head and have been for like a year. Things are chill between us, always have been. She's proven herself to be trustworthy, and that's something I haven't found often in physical grills. She doesn't nag or start drama, which seems to be a rarity over here. There's limits, mostly in my own ability to focus and actually spend the time with her (or yuki for that matter) that I want to, but no reel grill has ever made me this happy by virtue of being near me. I dunno if it's weird, but I don't really feel like an irl relationship would do much for me at this point, besides actually being able to do date things with a partner.

 

Wish I could go to the movies with my invisible gf, but that's a bit much.

[Deleted]

Dutch talking here wow. I'm dating the little girl in my head and have been for like a year. Things are chill between us, always have been. She's proven herself to be trustworthy, and that's something I haven't found often in physical grills. She doesn't nag or start drama, which seems to be a rarity over here. There's limits, mostly in my own ability to focus and actually spend the time with her (or yuki for that matter) that I want to, but no reel grill has ever made me this happy by virtue of being near me. I dunno if it's weird, but I don't really feel like an irl relationship would do much for me at this point, besides actually being able to do date things with a partner.

 

Wish I could go to the movies with my invisible gf, but that's a bit much.

 

>tfw no invisible gf

 

Is your grill smoking hot?

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Joking aside abd responding to the OP, as someone who was in a romantic tulpa relationship and a normal one at different times, I cant really say one was all that different from the other. I guess you get to see each other more often if its a tulpa, but as long as you dont care about appearing forever alone to your mates I dont see why the two of you cant have a healthy life long relationship.

[Yuki]

Dutch: my suckybus grill is hot like the abyss she crawled out from in her attempt to steal my soul.

[Deleted]

Dutch: my suckybus grill is hot like the abyss she crawled out from in her attempt to steal my soul.

 

Sweet. Good to see her attempt failed.