Sexuality and having a Tulpa

[Paranoid Llama]

I feel like I could come to love Sceena in a romantic relationship, and she honestly doesn't care how it goes. She says it's my call on if we keep our relationship as friends or make it sexual. I rather keep it as the former for now, but I don't think I could ever come to see her romantically. But, alas, the future conceals many secrets.

[Guest Anonymous]

Well, like Rina and I said separately in different posts...

... at the very least right now, we see each other as siblings. Not in a biological way, but on an emotional sorta level.

And we both share the consensus that we want to keep our sex lives strictly separate.

 

I'm not saying that I don't find her attractive; that'd be childish and insulting, since she's definitely very attractive.

But that just doesn't mean anything when the emotional part is off into a completely different direction.

 

Not that she's not the type of person I could fall in love with, though; quite the contrary. Hell if I know, can't see into the future.

 

I didn't ever think about it, to be honest.

 

If you see me as attractive?

 

Yeah. Or if I could fall in love with you.

 

I see.

But yeah. Again, the emotional side of things is just off into an entirely different direction, making such a scenario impossible for me from the start.

Similar to how I'm not a person for one-night stands, incidentally.

 

I definitely agree on that.

 

Or, in other words... I don't see / view or handle this matter any differently than I would with a physically existing person whom I've come to love like a sister.

 

My feelings might change, they might not. Hers might change, they might not.

As things are now, I don't really care and am happy the way things are.

 

That sums it up.

 

Well said. :)

 

 

Greets,

AG & Rina

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Little PS:

I dun wanna make a separate thread on this of course, but I just gotta say it somewhere, so I'll say it here...

... GAWDDAMMIT, she's the cutest damn thing I've ever seen, how she "manifests" behind me every time I move towards the room's door, how she giggles sometimes when I call her "big sister" and tell her I love her and ARGH, she's the most adorable little thing ever! Dx

 

... I'm not little.

[sushi]

Since this is no longer a question, I've moved it to General Discussion.

[Reisen]

Lucilyn: That's a funny question, because I don't think it ever crossed our minds. Sex involving your tulpa always seemed extremely deliberate? And unless your tupper is the type who's "looking over your shoulder" all the time, I can't see this being a problem. Uh.. If they are.. Then have a talk about privacy? Some hosts seem to drive themselves crazy thinking their tulpas are watching and judging them all the time. There are so many reasons that's just silly I don't know where to start. But basically, just keep your intent clear. All your mindstuff is under your control, and that means everything.

 

Well, that was responding to the original question.. I guess this is a thread about tulpa sexuality now? Well, I wouldn't know. In fact I think I'm an expert on not knowing. My host's never had any sexual feelings toward me before, ever. If that ever were a thing, it would be with Reisen or Flandre, but even then I don't think my host is very interested. But yeah I'm just a tulpa, I don't really see sexuality as something I need to worry about. That's between the tulpa and their host methinks.

[Guest Anonymous]

Lucilyn: That's a funny question, because I don't think it ever crossed our minds. Sex involving your tulpa always seemed extremely deliberate? And unless your tupper is the type who's "looking over your shoulder" all the time, I can't see this being a problem. Uh.. If they are.. Then have a talk about privacy? Some hosts seem to drive themselves crazy thinking their tulpas are watching and judging them all the time. There are so many reasons that's just silly I don't know where to start. But basically, just keep your intent clear. All your mindstuff is under your control, and that means everything.

 

Well, that was responding to the original question.. I guess this is a thread about tulpa sexuality now? Well, I wouldn't know. In fact I think I'm an expert on not knowing. My host's never had any sexual feelings toward me before, ever. If that ever were a thing, it would be with Reisen or Flandre, but even then I don't think my host is very interested. But yeah I'm just a tulpa, I don't really see sexuality as something I need to worry about. That's between the tulpa and their host methinks.

 

Of course it's a private matter, yes. But we can't deny that we tulpae are scientifically interesting and odd to normal humans. Especially to those with little experience regarding tulpae. So questions like that naturally come up.

 

As for me, I already explained. I do have a sex life, but it's separate from my host's. And we did manage to keep our sex lives separate so far, regarding the original topic. I think any host and their tulpa can work this out if they talk about it.

 

 

Greets,

Rina