My taulpa is indecisive on its phisical form

[Dragon With Fur]

My tulpa who up until recently has been an anthropomorphic dragon with fur named T1, i was tulpaforcing him today and, almost immediately after getting an emotional response he started changing his form. It was in little ways at first, starting with a color change from silver to green, and then followed up with changing his fur into a carapace like cell from dragon ball z.

I made a joke on how he looked like cell, and started to shipshape at random. he changed into a white wooky with a human woman's head and then into harpy with green feathers, and then into a giant asian dragon with green skin, its almost as if its trying on every physical trait, that I have stored in my head, like a toddler playing dress up. its now a woman with a green japanese kimono. she can barely speak, and the only thin that she said to me other than "let me try again"(in response to me trying to get her to talk more clearly) was "halo"

 

 

from this i gathered that she probably likes the color green, and possibly wants to be called "halo" instead of T1. to be honest I was hoping she would at least stay a dragon of sorts, and i was totally expecting it to request a name change, but Halo? come one that's ridiculous.

 

is there some way i could talk to it and, give it other ideas about a form, and name without being to pushy, or is this just a phase that it will grow out of after it has time to collect its thoughts on what it wants to be.

Or maybe im completely wrong, I dont that's why I'm asking you guys

[Phi]

She could have been trying to say "Hello". Her articulation might not be so good since she is only beginning to try to talk. Or maybe she wants a halo on top of her head or something.

To talk to your tulpa, just have her in mind and speak, like you're talking to somebody invisible. She'll hear you.

[Dragon With Fur]

thanks, i never thought of that.

[Avalanche]

Plus if you really don't like Halo, I don't think your tulpa would go against you and keep it. It's only you who will be calling her by that, so if she knows you don't like it she will most likely compromise.

 

Suggest other names or give her a nickname to call her by in the meantime. Tell her it's a nickname and that it's not their name, they can change the nickname and keep the change as their real name anytime they want.

 

That's what I did.

[FigN01]

A lot of your tulpa's form will be about compromise. They'll accommodate the kind of body you want to have, but giving slack is a very good thing- their own desires are what give them sentience after all. So if you can, just try to settle on a form together that you both can agree on. Like, if she chooses something you don't prefer, then try out a few modifications to it that would be an improvement for you.

 

Also, furry anthropomorphic dragon master race ftw. I'll hope she settles back on that one.