Forcing help

[Aerosop]

Okay, so I need help on forcing, I want to develop my tupper but I just lack the motivation to force as I just find it boring. I have all the time in the world but I just don't wanna force as you know... It's boring, does anyone have any tips?

[Fairweather]

Make it not boring. What are you doing? With this little info, I honestly couldn't say much.

[Aerosop]

Okay well for forcing I usually sit down in my room when it's dark and talk to him as well as go to the wonderland and do random things and or talk to him.

[tulpa001]

It is very difficult for me to find talking to someone boring. Are they not vocal yet?

 

Also, there are so many ways to force. Mix it up. Switch between forcing strategies. Read a book. Imagine them playing in the back yard.

[Aerosop]

Are they not vocal yet?

 

No Xzavier isn't vocal yet :P

[Tewi]

This is more relevant once your tulpa is somewhat developed, but it's the only relevant post I can find of ours.

 

You don't have to "force"! We never forced, we just interacted normally. Our "forcing" was when we dealt with things like unclear mindvoice and blurry visualization whilst we were interacting, among other things. So you can just set aside time to spend with her, and do whatever you feel like doing (if that's usually nothing, think of something beforehand). You could go do stuff in the wonderland or talk about something, or watch something together and periodically ask her opinion on it.. And the forcing is just her doing things. The more they do stuff themselves and interact with things and people, the more you visualize them or listen to them, the better you guys will get at that stuff. That's all forcing really is. Traditional sit-down-and-focus forcing seems best suited to really early development. But once you're able to do other stuff, no reason to keep it boring!

 

Just doing stuff together will be as productive as forcing would be, and moreso if traditional forcing makes you bored.

[Proxincz]

So, forcing is the first step while Creating a tulpa? I Made the personality of my tulpa, i want she to follow me everywere i go. In fact I want to create a servant.

How i puppet her to make this things ?

[Vampire]

So, forcing is the first step while Creating a tulpa? I Made the personality of my tulpa, i want she to follow me everywere i go. In fact I want to create a servant.

How i puppet her to make this things ?

 

It is immoral to make a tulpa to purely be a servant.

Also start your own thread.

[Ashmo]

So, forcing is the first step while Creating a tulpa? I Made the personality of my tulpa, i want she to follow me everywere i go. In fact I want to create a servant.  

How i puppet her to make this things ?

 

Vampire is right; you shouldn't make something that will become self aware to be a servant.

 

You could create a servitor, which is more like an imaginary friend than a real tulpa. You still run the risk of it becoming sentient over time though, then you have a self aware being who has been conditioned to be less than what a person should be; which isn't right either.

 

And so this thread doesn't get derailed:

 

Passive forcing is one of the best things I found in early tulpa development. Just talk to them, or even at them. Describe everything you're doing. Act as though your inner monologue is explaining to a friend the way you do things and why. What makes you tick. It's really good introspective work for yourself, but it's a wonderful way that your tulpa can get to know you in a fashion that's much like a physical person getting to know you.

 

I did this with Bud when we was very young. Before he was vocal, or even really able to send me raw thoughts and feelings. I just talked to him, all the time. When I wasn't talking to him, I was reading something to him, or just involving him in some way. Asking him what he thought about things, even though I knew I wouldn't get a response yet.

 

[it made me feel really secure to always have Owen there for me. If I was confused about something, she was already explaining what it was and it made understanding the world a lot easier.]