Not sure if doing it right...again!

[megazoark]

So I'm always forcing in a passive way we can say, I'm always talking to my tulpa, I always share my opinions with her and explain everything there is to see in the place where I live (she is only like 2 months old). The thing is that I haven't got any response from her, no words, facial expressions, or anything that I could consider "alien".

I know that I shouldn't rush it up, and I really don't have time to force, a lot of people will get mad at me but I don't think on leaving it, I will continue with this until Karma is 100%sentient and vocal, but I just wanted to know if the things that I have been doing are going to make any progress.

 

Sorry for my writing, English is my second language so :v

[Bambi]

Your English isn't bad at all! :)

 

Well, passive forcing hurts nothing, but if you don't feel like it's making any progress then it simply isn't going to make any progress, period. I'm sure that you have ten minutes *somewhere* in your time table, and that's all you need. Close your eyes for ten minutes and focus on nothing but your tulpa--whether the two of you are exploring wonderland, or if you're just trying to visualize them, or if you're trying to hear them . . . it's all the same. Ten minutes of active forcing is better than nothing at all.

[Orientor]

Hahaha, your English is fine!

 

The thing you've got to remember about Tulpas is that they're all different. Each Tulpa we make is unique in it's own little way (even if we try our hardest to make them identical)

 

Yours may not be responding for several reasons... It may be that he/she/they are rather shy. They may be solitary, or simply prefer observing rather than interacting. Also consider too that Tulpamancers have had to wait various spans of time before our Tulpas interact with us. Some of have had to wait months, while others (like myself) could have a conversation between ours in less than a week!

 

I know that you're trying to be patient. You're a good sport for that! Your Tulpa may not be talking to you right now, but that doesn't mean they aren't sentient. As I said: any number of reasons could explain why they're not talking. If you aren't trying already, make sure you are speaking DIRECTLY to your Tulpa sometimes too. Try to "ease" them out of their shell, so to speak.

 

Stay strong, my friend. Your Tulpa could have any emotional reason they're not speaking to you. But consider any signs it's giving too! Most Tulpamancers that recieve vague "messages" from their Tulpa do so in the form of headaches or pressure building somewhere in their head. But that doesn't mean that this way of Tulpas communicating is the universal way. Keep an eye out for any signs that Karma might be trying to send your way.

 

I bet the first Tulpamancer who felt pressure in the back of their skull didn't think twice about it, they probably thought it was just an everyday headache! Yours COULD be a similar case. Emphasis on the "could"... don't just assume anything to be a sign from your Tulpa, but consider the possibility as well. You never know what you'll find.

 

Best of luck! And REMEMBER: keep looking! You'll find the sign somewhere.

 

Oh! Love the name by the way. ;)

[megazoark]

First of thanks for the compliment :p also I do talk directly to her when I'm doing my everyday activities, I'm explaining to her how things work, what are those things and what they do etc. And I know that maybe I shouldn't be expecting something like that in just a month, but what does it depends on? Do certain people have more chances of making progress in less amount of time? And if so why?

[IBreakGames]

First of thanks for the compliment :p also I do talk directly to her when I'm doing my everyday activities, I'm explaining to her how things work, what are those things and what they do etc. And I know that maybe I shouldn't be expecting something like that in just a month, but what does it depends on? Do certain people have more chances of making progress in less amount of time? And if so why?

 

If we knew why, I think making a tulpa would become a whole lot simpler. The creation process in my opinion is all about playing to your strengths and what works for you. I found what gave me the biggest jump in my progress was the self hypnosis scripts (can't remember the creator off hand). After a lot of passive forcing and narration, kinda like what you're doing, I gave the hypnosis scripts a shot and it seemed to open my head up to Al. So maybe before bed try out some different techniques and see where it takes you.

[Bambi]

First of thanks for the compliment :p also I do talk directly to her when I'm doing my everyday activities, I'm explaining to her how things work, what are those things and what they do etc. And I know that maybe I shouldn't be expecting something like that in just a month, but what does it depends on? Do certain people have more chances of making progress in less amount of time? And if so why?

 

Well, I did say that you could take ten minutes out of your day to active force instead of just passively. I've never heard anyone say that active forcing slowed down their progress, and I've never heard anyone say that it didn't do anything to help. People who actively force (and therefore take more time to spend with their tulpa and just their tulpa) are more likely to get responses quickly.

[megazoark]

Thanks to everyone for the replies, I will try to make some time for her, after all she deserves it and I will also try all techniques I come across with.