A few questions from a newb

[NoneFromHell]

You seriously need to calm down and stop asking if every little step you take is fine. Read through some guides and then simply go for it.

[Gvina]

You seriously need to calm down and stop asking if every little step you take is fine. Read through some guides and then simply go for it.

I am nervous and unsure in my nature.

I am getting stressed because it's an "unknown territory"

[NoneFromHell]

I am nervous and unsure in my nature.

I am getting stressed because it's an "unknown territory"

 

That's quite understandable, but you can't expect us to verify every little step you take and comfort you about it. It is a long term project and you need to understand that it's rather impossible to do something terrible wrong. Take your time, let it develop, and reflect about it from time to time (i'm talking weeks and months) to think about what you could do better. On that occasions you surely can ask about feedback on your progress. Nobody started as an expert.

[nlc11]

You seriously need to calm down and stop asking if every little step you take is fine. Read through some guides and then simply go for it.

 

NoneFromHell, this is the best advice that can ever be given. Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

Gvina, just go with the flow of the process. Nothing you do will harm you nor your Tulpa. Just read guides, post progress, keep interested. Not getting bored and giving up on the process is the most important thing you can do.

[Gvina]

 

NoneFromHell, this is the best advice that can ever be given. Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

Gvina, just go with the flow of the process. Nothing you do will harm you nor your Tulpa. Just read guides, post progress, keep interested. Not getting bored and giving up on the process is the most important thing you can do.

 

OK. Thanks. I'll do that :3

[Paranoid Llama]

I'd just like to add to NoneFromHell's point is that you really can't "fail" in tulpamancy if you intend to try it. Any mistake you do will most likely be noticed by you and/or your tulpa and you can easily fix it.

[Nageki]

Heya, fellow newbie tulpamancer here. I'd like to add that, from all the stuff I've read (guides, tips & tricks, discussion threads, question threads, etc) I've gathered that tulpamancy is a highly subjective experience and that a lot of your experience with it will involve you feeling around for what works for you. Everybody has different experiences and nobody will go about things in the same way.

 

All the tutorials and feedback you get from experienced tulpamancers won't mean shit if the advice doesn't help you and your tulpa further yourselves -- more than anything, you'll have to put out feelers and try lots of different things before you can find something that works well for you. Don't sweat it if you feel that something written in a guide or something that a lot of other tulpamancers do doesn't connect for you. Tulpamancy is more of a journey of self discovery than it looks like on the surface, and it's impossible to rely on others to tell you if you're doing it right or not.

 

For example, a lot of the guides emphasize personality forcing as something the author highly recommends you do a lot, session after session. Naturally, I took their word for it and tried personality forcing for awhile. But I figured out pretty quickly that it didn't seem to be doing anything for me beyond the first session. That doesn't mean I did something wrong; it just meant that what worked for other people didn't work for me, so I didn't stick with it and moved on to try out different things so I could find stuff that did work.

 

Basically just listen to your intuition and pay attention when it tells you if what you're trying is(n't) going so well. Your perception of events above all should be your #1 guide; everything else is supplementary material.