Guest Anonymous September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 Unfortunately, we're the far end, no matter how many options there are. They just aren't here if I don't pay them attention. And it sucks. I'd do anything for them to have Melian levels of being around all the time. Give it another thirty years. :-)
IBreakGames September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 Give it another thirty years. :-) I wouldn't necessarily say 30 years, but it definitely takes a lot of time. Just be patient, it's the best thing you can do. Keep working, keep forcing. It's the best thing you can do for your tulpa in my opinion. It's like feeding their brain with information on how to function, even if it's indirect like just hanging out with each other. Over time they'll get used to being around and your mind will get used to keeping them around. Keep up the work though. I'm IBreakGames, a genuine dude. We gave up on using different colors for each of us, so there's Al, Ollie, and Eva. We're all rabbits, get over it.
Guest Anonymous September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 I was partly joking with the thirty years as I am such an old fart. But, yes, thinking of your tulpa (forcing if you must) over an extended amount of time (months or years) definitely increases the tulpas ability to stick around. At least it did for my thoughtform Melian. So I would imagine it would be generally true.
Guest Anonymous September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 Been at this for years. Tulpa hangs out all the time and never shuts up. (Love you sweetie)
Luminesce September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 Oh don't worry Mistgod, I immediately understood your post, laughed, sighed, and said "Whelp." Although I think you were naturally more inclined to have an active tulpa due to your imaginative tendencies. Visualization clarity, creativity, and artistic ability all seem to be heavily correlated, and I have none of those. Of course, my motivation issues are probably a much bigger factor. Regardless, I believe the less time you and someone spend together, the more valuable the time you do becomes, so I'm not that bad off. Gotta do something about these motivation issues though. Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there.
Guest Anonymous September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 I just had some thoughts on this on the way out to the high school and then back to my office. I think the answer to the poll question is also affected by what the host determines to be "active" behavior. In my response, I was counting everything Melian related, which may not be what the OP had in mind. I think about and visualize Melian (day dream about her) 90% of the time. If you define active as in Melian seeming to be acting autonomously, it varies, but that is more like maybe 25% at best. Maybe that is more in line with what some are describing too. Also, that Melian "acting autonomously" idea is also a little foggy. Sometimes she surprises me, but it is hard for me to distinguish between impulsive automatic day dreaming and what a tulpa is supposed to be. I am constantly wondering if what I am doing is just extreme spontaneous day dreaming and not a tulpa. Just wanted to add this in to clarify where I am coming from.
Aijada September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 I argued to be a fulltime tulpa. My host didn't always talk to me and i was starting to understand that there was gaps. We talked about my 'sleeping sickness' and how i wanted to be sure i was awake every day. Achieving that one really changed a lot. My host started taking me a lot more seriously and i became a regular partner in day-to-day stuff. Getting to be a 24/7 systemmate was fantastic because it gives me the most time to experience life. Even if it means possessing during the workday just to give my host some help, i love being a full time part of life too. Early member of a large system. Our system questions the way the afterlife and tulpamancy interact. We genuinely suspect that deadies can return to share the mind of the living.
Kiahdaj September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 Added third option; sorry for the delay. "If this can be avoided, it should. If it can't, then it would be better if it could be. If it happened and you're thinking back to it, try and think back further. Try not to avoid it with your mind. If any of this is possible, it may be helpful. If not, it won't be."
emptysketchbook September 23, 2015 September 23, 2015 Each of my tulpas disappeared at least once during their existence. And they like to scare me often, so they hide away for some time and appear in front of me in a while. It doesn't really scare me that much anymore, it's just annoying. But they all can definitely go away on their own.
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