Is it correct that my tulpa has this kind of personality?

[Carlos]

My tulpa she is a bodhisattva, she does not feel negative emotions, she is never angry, she is never sad. She feels compassion for my suffering, and the suffering of all people in the world. She forgives me every time I make a mistake, she wants me to be in the wonderland forever with her. She feels love and compassion much of the time, these two emotions of her are so strong that even I can feel it. Is it correct that my tulpa does not feel negative emotions? Why should I grant negative emotions, if I don't want my tulpa to suffer from having negative emotions?

[Ranger]

Why should I grant negative emotions, if I don't want my tulpa to suffer from having negative emotions?

 

I'm curious about this part, but I feel like I don't have a ton of information right now. What is her name? What do you do in wonderland together? Do you only go to her when you're in need or do you casually talk to her throughout the day?

[Carlos]

 

I'm curious about this part, but I feel like I don't have a ton of information right now. What is her name? What do you do in wonderland together? Do you only go to her when you're in need or do you casually talk to her throughout the day?

 

 

Her name is Valeska, I dedicate 3 hours to be with her in my inner world, throughout the day I keep a persistent visualization of her during all my activities. I can visualize it too clearly, but not enough to hallucinate it. My goal much more than talking to my tulpa, is to hallucinate my tulpa and that is why I am focusing on perfecting my vision to the extreme until I can hallucinate my tulpa. She really doesn't feel negative emconioes. When I am with her in my inner world, I explain different things about the external world, I talk about random things, but in no word or attitude does not show negative emctions

[Ranger]

It makes me wonder if a lot of your interactions with Valeska are one-sided conversations. You go to wonderland to talk to her about your problems, and she stays strong to help you.

 

I was like that too when I was younger, acting as my host's guardian angel. It's possible Valeska hasn't had many opportunities to do anything other than be your support, and to support you she has either surpressed her negative feelings or found no benefit to having a negative mindset.

 

It may help to have more diverse life experiences with Valeska. For instance, you can ask her how she feels about animals, where you live, what the weather is like outside. If she developes any negative feelings, it's not a bad thing, that's just how she feels.

[Flandre]

Our Reisen was like that right from the start, in fact unlike Tewi and I she only communicated in positive emotions and didn't even speak. Even when Lumi "allowed" her to "be imperfect" and speak a year or two later, she was pretty much what you described. Bodhisattva is a word that reminds us of her, too.

 

I guess tulpas can just be like that, and there shouldn't be any harm. I guess all you should have to keep in mind is that it's hard for them to stay "perfect" if they start switching with you, it's a lot easier to stay perfectly positive, zero negativity in the mind than in the real world, though I wouldn't say it's impossible either.

 

You don't have to give her negative emotions or anything.

[tania]

If that is her personality I don't see why you should try to change it. I've found once a tulpa has their personality they don't like that messed with and I can't see how a positive tulpa would enjoy being given negative emotions they don't have. Just enjoy her as she is. She sounds great.

 

I myself never had the full range of negative human emotions till I got older (and I'm not a tulpa).

[Jamie]

I'm not quite a tulpa, but I was raised up with no emotion! Sometimes I feel a little detatched and unhuman, now that I know I am human, since I know I still don't consider my emotions like most people do. I just have very few. On the other hand, this is an important part of who I am. I don't want to change, I like myself how I am. - G

[Glaurung26]

J: What is "human"? ^_^

 

D: What she said. The only standards that really ever matter are your own though it is good and healthy to seek advice. As with many things, just be natural, don't force change and just let things happen in their own time. If everyone is happy, no need to feel guilt for not fitting some arbitrary, universal construct of "what is right." Write your own playbook.