Memories

[Bjarke Inn Havardr]

I was talking to my tulpa Opal today about a movie I had seen earlier. (She still hasn't talked, I am in the early narration process) there was a part that I really couldn't describe, so I just fixed the scene in my mind and tried to "push" it towards her. Would this work, or is it not reaching her?

[Ashmo]

As long as you believe it will reach her, it will. What you are doing is basically (or maybe even literally?) communicating to her with raw thought. That's and amazing, and incredibly intimate way of building a bond with your tupper. It's how I got Bud communicating fully before he could speak.

[Einulf]

That's actually how Aura and I communicate sometimes even now. For us, it's faster and more accurate than words. Occasionally we even mix the two in some ways, like saying something vague while conveying something to clarify it. We also used that method to share memories with our two Tulpas, Jason and Lucia, in order to drastically speed up their development.

[FallFamily]

Tri:

 

That is a perfectly valid way of communicating. People way too often think only of vocal communication or think it higher than others. Neither are true. In fact, when you share a brain, other very powerful ways open up. One, sharing emotions, can be quite special. Sharing images and other senses is both effective and can be intimate. Also, remember, people (hosts and tulpas) have preferences. Some don't like to talk in words but use other means. Some only want to use words.

[sushi]

Fenchurch and I do that too. Usually we use words, but sometimes a concept is so complex that while we could put it into words, it might take hours of conversation to find the right words. As an example, a few weeks ago I was talking with my girlfriend about something for half an hour or so, and finally I told Fenchurch "She doesn't get what I'm trying to say. I'm trying to say [bLAM]." and of course Fenchurch got my point immediately.

[Linkzelda]

Short answer: There’s a myriad of ways to express yourself through the experiential cases in your life with them that wondering if one mode of communication will have more efficacy than the other would probably be too trivial to worry about.

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Long answer filled with analogues to hopefully reconcile and supplement with the short answer: Some analogues of ways of how I can rekindle with certain memories and experiences of things with them is:

 

- Just by doing a concept of image streaming while typing for a

. And when I debrief over what went on in those sessions, it just adds on to influencing my mind that what was experienced was something significant for us; maybe in theory, that active cycle of militantly describing things in your head with them, and then debriefing by reading/speaking aloud over the content, things may connect after, and you being able to refer to your imagination progressively improves.

 

- And even after doing all that, sometimes just literally wanting to go into the mindset of putting myself in there of imagining their existing ends up with me being able to do so easily. It’s like reveling so much in your imagination because the efforts beforehand that tapping into other senses, albeit imaginary within your mind’s eye, may augment that connection in how far you want to further that propensity in treating them as sentient.

 

- In other words, putting more in than just through one mode of communication just helps you become an individual that can refer to a plethora of things in validating your personal assurances of them being sentient to you; and the degrees of sentience and autonomy, and what have you would be the least of your worries when you can have your imagination at your beck and call to progressively reconcile with those yearnings.

 

- For example, sometimes when I listen to certain types of music/ost/etc.:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IW9PfusRd0

• I get this feeling of a grandiose adventure is about to ensue along the potential of some kind of philosophical realization that somehow ties up with real life in some way; things come full circle, especially if I debrief myself to see if there were any potential symbolic meanings within those experiences with them just from that music playing in the background

 

• Listening to this, I can easily imagine them wearing some kind of light to moderate winter gear; getting into that festive spirit of exploring all sorts of towns in the winter and being all jolly with them

 

• I get the feeling that something epic is about the happening; there’s just a mélange of visualizations going through my head to where there’s so many levels of how you visually see and sense them

 

• asdfghjkl pretty much

 

 

 

And those analogues with the music were wholly contingent on just that. If there were images with that:

 

http://i.imgur.com/Fx9M58u.jpg

 

I literally had a session that involved a theme related to Super Mario Sunshine. I imagined myself and them trying to water gun an electrical manta ray to death along with other activities and tasks just for the sake of reveling in things to do in my head. And not just that, being able to rotate visually of certain angles of their visages and bodies was really easy to the point where I can hear things like this that would resonate with the image above:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsA5oVt3ypc

 

So much nostalgia blasted in sporadic amounts because of experiences with actually playing the game before, and just using one bit of reference via images and/or music, and such to create a virtual experiential reality easily is astounding. And when you can learn to not be unnerved and panicky over the overwhelming surges of imagination that can be utilized as a basis in imagining their existence, it’s hard to run out of things to do that can potentially further your propensity in treating them as sentient to where you have that validation to yourself that they are within your subjective experience.

 

I could utilize more visual analogues, but hopefully you get the point. So you don’t have to sell yourself short!